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WTF? what is wrong with people?! this makes me wanna pull my hair out! its 2009!!!! Aisha Send a noteboard - 16/10/2009 04:19:49 AM
anyone wanna show this FOOL the statistics on divorce rates with same race couples?????? not much of a diff if any!!!!!!!! ugh this makes my blood boil..

NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said.

Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said.

"There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it."

If he did an interracial marriage for one couple, he must do the same for all, he said.

"I try to treat everyone equally," he said.

Bardwell estimates that he has refused to marry about four couples during his career, all in the past 2 1/2 years.

Beth Humphrey, 30, and 32-year-old Terence McKay, both of Hammond, say they will consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint.

Humphrey, an account manager for a marketing firm, said she and McKay, a welder, just returned to Louisiana. She is white and he is black. She plans to enroll in the University of New Orleans to pursue a masters degree in minority politics.

"That was one thing that made this so unbelievable," she said. "It's not something you expect in this day and age."

Humphrey said she called Bardwell on Oct. 6 to inquire about getting a marriage license signed. She says Bardwell's wife told her that Bardwell will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples. Bardwell suggested the couple go to another justice of the peace in the parish who agreed to marry them.

"We are looking forward to having children," Humphrey said. "And all our friends and co-workers have been very supportive. Except for this, we're typical happy newlyweds."

"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzmann. She said the Supreme Court ruled in 1967 "that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."

The ACLU sent a letter to the Louisiana Judiciary Committee, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and recommending "the most severe sanctions available, because such blatant bigotry poses a substantial threat of serious harm to the administration of justice."

"He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzmann said.

According to the clerk of court's office, application for a marriage license must be made three days before the ceremony because there is a 72-hour waiting period. The applicants are asked if they have previously been married. If so, they must show how the marriage ended, such as divorce.

Other than that, all they need is a birth certificate and Social Security card.

The license fee is $35, and the license must be signed by a Louisiana minister, justice of the peace or judge. The original is returned to the clerk's office.

"I've been a justice of the peace for 34 years and I don't think I've mistreated anybody," Bardwell said. "I've made some mistakes, but you have too. I didn't tell this couple they couldn't get married. I just told them I wouldn't do it."

Jesus Christ, what distorted logic. And here I thought it was 2009 and not 1959.
Aisha - formerly known as randschicka
This message last edited by Aisha on 16/10/2009 at 04:26:43 AM
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Interracial couple denied marriage license in La. - 16/10/2009 03:44:53 AM 818 Views
What? He seems like a pretty rational guy. - 16/10/2009 04:08:36 AM 386 Views
WTF? what is wrong with people?! this makes me wanna pull my hair out! its 2009!!!! - 16/10/2009 04:19:49 AM 442 Views
How are mixed race children treated in Louisiana? Here, nobody under the age of 60 could care less - 16/10/2009 05:19:49 AM 376 Views
I was thinking the same thing. - 16/10/2009 06:41:07 AM 356 Views
aren't Cajuns a mix of multiple races (whites and indians mostly)?? Cajuns ARE Loiusiana *NM* - 16/10/2009 05:05:18 PM 145 Views
There really are not that many Cajuns Loiusiana - 16/10/2009 06:12:07 PM 320 Views
There are a fair amount. *NM* - 17/10/2009 07:25:21 AM 126 Views
thats what i thought *NM* - 19/10/2009 07:24:05 PM 128 Views
You're confusing Cajuns with Creoles. - 17/10/2009 07:28:35 AM 320 Views
a coonass is a coonass *NM* - 19/10/2009 05:00:39 AM 127 Views
careful buddy, thats almost like saying a nr is a nr - 19/10/2009 07:28:34 PM 371 Views
Tru' dat. *NM* - 19/10/2009 09:51:10 PM 149 Views
Depends on where you are. - 17/10/2009 07:30:54 AM 316 Views
That's just absurd. *NM* - 16/10/2009 06:46:39 AM 141 Views
Some unions are opposed because they can't breed - but here the ability to breed is the problem! - 16/10/2009 11:37:34 AM 560 Views
Wild guess: Civil rights act? - 16/10/2009 03:04:58 PM 372 Views
the government should just get their fingers out of the marriage business - 16/10/2009 05:14:02 PM 356 Views
*snorts* - 19/10/2009 02:01:01 AM 399 Views
LOL, ironic eh? - 19/10/2009 07:38:14 PM 476 Views
Uh, no dude. - 26/10/2009 03:33:33 AM 409 Views
you're a sick sick girl-- i LOVE it *NM* - 27/10/2009 04:11:26 PM 230 Views
seems like a very liberal stance to me - 27/10/2009 04:55:14 PM 285 Views
A judge is not a private citizen - 16/10/2009 05:43:44 PM 345 Views
Is it really discrimination? He is not singling out any race, which is what discrimination means... - 17/10/2009 04:37:11 PM 409 Views
He's singling out mixed-race couples - 19/10/2009 04:59:17 AM 500 Views
Good call on the minors - 19/10/2009 08:29:44 AM 453 Views
Yeah, that's a good analogy - 19/10/2009 03:55:23 PM 311 Views
Dear Lord, you really are one of the most special people I've ever known. - 16/10/2009 09:40:16 PM 355 Views
Re: Interracial couple denied marriage license in La. - 16/10/2009 03:54:10 PM 342 Views
Why can't they just go to another JotP? Why MUST this guy cave in? - 22/10/2009 11:26:32 PM 373 Views
Um. 'Cuz what he's doing is illegal? - 22/10/2009 11:28:10 PM 290 Views
lol Judging from your response, I take it you didn't even fully read my response title! - 23/10/2009 07:51:48 PM 349 Views
I did, actually. - 23/10/2009 08:39:19 PM 301 Views

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