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what you've never heard of "bros before hos"? darius_sedai Send a noteboard - 08/07/2011 08:03:47 PM
... about Egwene "handing over" her boyfriend to Elayne and how a great many women from this board admitted that it was a realistic portrayal of women to my eternal horror and consternation.


Not long after I read book 3 - maybe a year, I can't recall - I had a situation where I learned that my friend got permission from my girlfriend to make a move on me after me and my gf broke up. I felt shocked, too, and really did wonder "am i being passed along like a sweater?" I felt a little cheapened, but I didn't let myself get used.


I think it's pretty standard practice with men and women. Maybe not quite as overt as a formal conversation, but I'd call it common courtesy to let you friend know that you are interested in their EX before you jump into a relationship.
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What;s your favorite RJ comment on the sexes? newyorkersedai - 06/07/2011 02:04:56 AM 1924 Views
Women cannot admit they were wrong and will partner up with their worst enemy against a man over it. djwilson300 - 07/07/2011 12:20:16 AM 989 Views
I remember a thread started by Phil Reborn long ago... Fanatic-Templar - 07/07/2011 05:21:12 AM 952 Views
Oh, heaven, I've been there! newyorkersedai - 08/07/2011 12:04:35 AM 1006 Views
what you've never heard of "bros before hos"? darius_sedai - 08/07/2011 08:03:47 PM 888 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:38:59 PM 853 Views
Yeah, but before you've even broken up? *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:51 PM 466 Views
Re: Yeah, but before you've even broken up? darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:13:57 PM 928 Views
That's not exactly what the incident was about. Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:29:14 PM 934 Views
Yes, and the way Egwene expressed her thoughts on the matter is quite disturning too Zeratul - 11/07/2011 12:56:59 AM 935 Views
That wasn't what I was refering to ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:26:59 PM 851 Views
certainly not by today's standards, but to play devil's advocate here... darius_sedai - 12/07/2011 09:04:07 PM 921 Views
I don't think any of his comments on the sexes are accurate for real people RugbyPlayingAshaman - 07/07/2011 02:53:29 PM 1010 Views
I largely disagree newyorkersedai - 07/07/2011 11:59:52 PM 1014 Views
I agree with you about stereotypes LadyLorraine - 08/07/2011 01:13:22 AM 881 Views
Hahah, he did? Details, please. beetnemesis - 08/07/2011 05:07:01 AM 825 Views
No Deadsy - 08/07/2011 06:10:05 AM 976 Views
It depends on who the 6 women and his dual girlfriends were. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 08/07/2011 03:15:14 PM 928 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 07:46:30 PM 950 Views
*NM* fionwe1987 - 08/07/2011 09:18:44 PM 441 Views
Hi fionwe1987! *NM* ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:36:48 PM 444 Views
Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... fionwe1987 - 09/07/2011 06:31:20 AM 995 Views
Yes! I agree! newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:21 PM 1035 Views
I shall never recover *NM* ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:23:11 PM 400 Views
I think your heart will go on =p *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 07:27:28 PM 431 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:42:48 PM 990 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:35:37 PM 869 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM 1008 Views
Much of Faile's "punishing" was just Perrin's super-nose. Fanatic-Templar - 13/07/2011 03:36:03 AM 872 Views
that's not why stereotypes exist LadyLorraine - 09/07/2011 04:18:45 AM 947 Views
Re: that's not why stereotypes exist newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:27:24 PM 1120 Views
*throws caution to the wind* darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:19:42 PM 860 Views
whether positive or negative, stereotypes all come from the same place nigelgoboom - 12/07/2011 04:29:23 AM 876 Views
That's why I said that's the easy way out. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 14/07/2011 02:39:38 PM 794 Views
Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm *NM* Cannoli - 13/07/2011 01:09:00 AM 515 Views
Re: Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm darius_sedai - 16/07/2011 01:02:37 PM 1087 Views
blood and ashes! *NM* nigelgoboom - 13/07/2011 01:24:18 AM 415 Views
You have to make sure your husbands do what you want, while making them think it was their idea. CatherineSedai - 21/07/2011 04:28:39 AM 940 Views
And I can buy that, which is why I'm surprised at how many claimed they were inaccurate. Seriously, newyorkersedai - 26/07/2011 01:44:28 AM 936 Views
I always thought it was relatively accurate. Onarishma - 21/07/2011 11:36:41 PM 877 Views
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