Because otherwise, I don't understand your comment
How is a seven foot tall brute with a shaved head and artistically placed scars, who dresses in ratty fur and armor no other clan knows how to forge, carries a giant battle axe and either spends his scenes glowering silently or cartoonishly pointing out how "I'M A CANNIBAL YOU GUYS ARE'T YOU SCARED RAWRRRR!!!" all while making an adorable attempt to hide his Russian accent disgusting?
Okay, so he wants to boink Ygritte. Nobody's perfect.
Roland, you can totally have Jon Snow. I'm sure he'll be more than willing to "experiment" now that Ygritte has turned him off the female gender for all eternity.
Happy?