What is the point of your hypothetical 14 year old? That he's screwed by the accident of his place of birth? Yes. Yes he is.As are the residents of the Rio favelas, the Mexico City shanty towns, sub-Sahara Africa, the teeming slums of Mumbai and New Dehli, and various and sundry areas within the US.
Are you overlooking the point that Hamas will happily use your young teen and others as human shields?
Life often sucks. Then we die.
And I trust you to know why an event prior to my birth, (but hey you were alive then ) is way too complicated for us to to go instantly back and forth. It is that and other events which is why Egypt says no, even if it’s the right thing to do* (in my opinion, but hey who ever listens to me I wish it was not so but I am one person away from it all)
*do here is not singular but so many things, for a thriving life is not 1 thing but many.
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As for the other bit, I feel it is self-explanatory, do you need me to explain it? And if I explain it, will you say I talk too much? (The answer to the last bit, will you change )