As in...how have you personally failed? Is it your fault that you were born with what you describe as "privilege"? Is being born into a family that has money wrong?
Acknowledgement & awareness are two attributes that are a between action and inaction. I have asked those who've confronted me with questions of "Now that you're aware, what are you doing different?"
And just to say it, if one tries to judge all of those with a particular skin color the same way "you're white....so you're inherently racist & privileged"...then that in and of itself is racist. Isn't the whole point to not make assumptions about an individual based on the collective that they look like?
~Jeordam
Saving the Princess, Humanity, or the World-Entire since 1985