Mookie I can explain how this occurs and why this occurs, but like Joe said it will use lots of esoteric words, so it may not be useful . Furthermore like Joe pointed out (JFC) and I did (Ecclesiastes quote, Thomas Aquinas joke) it involves religious though processes.

• So what I am saying Mookie is sorry for being a Pain in the Ass, and I hope the experience is good for you

But the short of it is due to being pathetic and all humans are pathetic. For all humans suffer, and from suffering comes pathos (greek word that means suffering, but also many other things including "to feel", pathetic is a word that descends from pathos with using pathos as a root word and is trying to express a very specific form of pathos.)

People when they suffer often try to externalize their suffering and make it all "mean something" and thus they try to turn it into something sublime, they look for glory, grand, lofty, full of splendor, majesty, it is a glamour a noble light that makes it all worth it in the end. The suffering sucks, but if the suffering serves some grand purpose, some grand design, where the sum of the suffering parts can add up to something bigger than they feel relief.

People create whole entire languages around their own internal struggles, their own pathetic little lives they try to find the right words.

And then they "ritualize" these words, hopping that if we just practice the ritual a little more in the external world that somehow this world will be better and suffering will decrease. If we say these magic words, the world will be full of "glory" the heavens will cry out and all will be better for the future even if it wasn't this way in the past. Lets "hypothetically" say I am a trans person and I have hyperfocused lots of my life onto finding the magic words to deal with my own internal pain. I pretend that instead of dealing with my own internal pain that if I can externalize these magic words then no other trans person when they were a child will experience pain.

This is of nonsense of course for "words are wind." Words are meaningless if they are used at the wrong time and the wrong space, but words are magical if used at the right time and the right space.

But when you are suffering you can't figure out what is the right time and the right place, for suffering (unlike pain) is an ever present feeling. Thus in a motivated reasoning fashion you think every moment is the right place and the right time for it feels that way to you. Yet you can't "theory of mind" and recognize that your own internal suffering is not the same type of pains and the same source of pain that other people are suffering through.

There are other ways to relieve pain, to find "catharsis" where you can purification / cleansing / relieve this pain and suffering. (Another fancy Greek word that is often used in some philosophy where it is compared to Pathos)

One of the ways is to freaking laugh for laughter can end the "suffering" essence and make suffering merely into pain, and once the pain trigger ends you forget about the pain and redirect your attention to something else.

And sometimes the best way to laugh is via bathos (fancy greek word). Bathos is a form of anticlimax where you try to do some form of "ever higher pathos" / reach for the "sublime" and it falls apart and you can laugh at this anti-climax. Bathos originally meant "depth" / "low-point" but an additional definition that came later is when you try to reach ever higher only to fail, and when you fail you see the absuridity of it all.

With Bathos there is an an abrupt turn from the serious and poetic to the regular and silly. Effectively you see this as a farce.

These people are morons who think the perfect language will somehow end suffering, and they are also morons for a different reason which is to realize they will never find the perfect words, and they are even more moronic for a third reason they can't see that these word choice they have settled on is obtuse and useless.

Yet I sympathize and empathize with these complete and utter morons. Well only kind of pseduo-sympathize, for I am not really with them.

Remember the word pathos I mention earlier. Empathy is a word that derives from Pathos (many pathy words derive from pathos, but not all of them.) I understand their pain if I imagine their frame of reference even though I do not share their frame of reference, that is what empathy means. I can identify their pain, I can identify their frame of reference, and if I allow myself to feel this same frame of reference I tool will feel a similar type of pain (even though most likely it will be much more shallow.)

I pseduo-sympathize with them for I agree that proper sex education can be very helpful in relieving many types of suffering (such as STDs, unplanned pregnancy, and other things.) But like I said earlier these people are pathetic morons for they have made the perfect the enemy of the good and they are absurd in their actions.

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Why did I waste my time writting that I do not know? (Literally this shit is religion and thus half nonsense)

But lets return to the sublime present material world. Lets be honest the first hole will always be the mouth and the mouth is the better hole to play with unlike the disgusting vagina. The mouth is both the first and the front hole. Am I right mookie