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I have this a lot. Legolas Send a noteboard - 04/10/2017 11:35:08 PM

View original postThere is a quote by someone (African woman and we already talked about my memory!) that is along the lines of "blah blah, it's your second thought that shows the kind of person you are." We all do stupid things if we're not paying attention, but if you think twice, change your reaction, you're probably not going to hell.

Where my initial, instinctive reaction is racist or discriminatory in some other way, but then my conscious thinking steps in and mentally scolds the subconscious, hopefully in time to avoid actually doing or saying anything too bad.

No doubt it would be better to just not have that instinctive reaction in the first place, but eh, still better than just running with it.

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Microaggressions: Have you ever committed one? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 06:42:55 PM 1092 Views
Bah! damookster - 04/10/2017 06:52:28 PM 632 Views
Confession is good for the soul aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:03:19 PM 591 Views
My memory sucks nossy - 04/10/2017 06:57:31 PM 675 Views
Of course your memory sucks, ma'am aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:08:56 PM 693 Views
nossy - 04/10/2017 07:14:29 PM 685 Views
Ok then, on second thought... aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:29:03 PM 531 Views
But, does that exist? nossy - 04/10/2017 07:41:47 PM 655 Views
Re: But, does that exist? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:51:44 PM 559 Views
I have this a lot. Legolas - 04/10/2017 11:35:08 PM 703 Views
People are hardwired to prejudge random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:01:34 AM 723 Views
We truly are. nossy - 05/10/2017 11:00:33 AM 673 Views
Using suck as a negative term is a microagression against those of us who like to suck. LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:23:17 PM 626 Views
Even people who don't like sucking usually like getting sucked. *NM* Tom - 04/10/2017 09:12:55 PM 315 Views
Calm down, Samantha! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:58:31 AM 641 Views
*NM* LiterateDog - 05/10/2017 06:55:11 PM 321 Views
Maaaaaybeeeeee.......??? LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:26:45 PM 642 Views
Yes. Yeah... I think yes. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 08:47:27 PM 632 Views
You have made elevators complicated. That isn't easy. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:04:47 AM 321 Views
Hopefully, I commit them multiple times a day, every damn day Tom - 04/10/2017 09:11:08 PM 593 Views
So I was not wrong to treat her like she couldn't do her job. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 09:19:12 PM 603 Views
Oh the drama and the hyperbole! Tom - 04/10/2017 11:11:36 PM 629 Views
Yeah, good luck with all that. *NM* aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:17:21 PM 370 Views
You can be such a little liar! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:56:54 AM 604 Views
You're talking about two completely independent notions Tom - 05/10/2017 02:05:44 PM 636 Views
Literally! nossy - 05/10/2017 03:19:47 PM 676 Views
Yes, literally! Tom - 05/10/2017 04:51:44 PM 630 Views
I've beaten the shit out of a few people in my day... Larry - 04/10/2017 10:33:28 PM 619 Views
I laughed at a co-worker's assertion that "non-white people can't be racist". Vodalus - 04/10/2017 11:23:35 PM 625 Views
Probably aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:27:29 PM 683 Views
"I guess I would say Im lazy. I dont want to repeat same task so I just do it right the first time." Hieshyn - 05/10/2017 12:17:09 AM 604 Views
I don't do well with that one... damookster - 05/10/2017 12:39:32 AM 697 Views
I answered that I didn't like people and got the job. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:08:08 AM 344 Views
I try and stick to macro aggression random thoughts - 05/10/2017 03:56:25 AM 578 Views
I'm sure I have, though nothing springs to mind. It wouldn't, though, by definition. Ghavrel - 05/10/2017 09:56:08 AM 600 Views
I'm glad you said this nossy - 05/10/2017 10:53:10 AM 629 Views
One presumes you could become aware later, as I did. *NM* aerocontrols - 05/10/2017 09:17:28 PM 288 Views
Being micro-agressed is a choice. Nargs - 06/10/2017 03:59:05 AM 681 Views
It's really not nossy - 06/10/2017 11:45:40 AM 688 Views
I think you're both right aerocontrols - 06/10/2017 02:25:48 PM 673 Views
Re: I think you're both right damookster - 06/10/2017 03:36:26 PM 611 Views
There is a difference. nossy - 06/10/2017 05:45:33 PM 624 Views
It has become an oppressive tool of the culture of victimhood damookster - 06/10/2017 07:32:36 PM 635 Views
As I said to Narg nossy - 06/10/2017 07:54:50 PM 645 Views
We will have to agree to disagree. damookster - 06/10/2017 08:21:25 PM 677 Views
I suppose so. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:09:24 PM 604 Views
good thing damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 626 Views
I was going for gold. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:45:13 PM 594 Views
damn *NM* damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 309 Views
I am 100% certain I never have Urza - 07/10/2017 09:59:41 PM 696 Views
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