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I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 24/08/2017 10:36:31 PM

I'm not retreating to a keep when I say feminism is about equality of the sexes in response to someone who claims feminism is about making women superior to men (the popular "I'm not a feminist; I'm egalitarian" gambit). Feminism is about equality of the sexes.

The various positions I support as a feminist that offend alleged egalitarians are not sneaky extensions of my philosophy into gynocracy. They're positions that I believe are necessary to achieve actual equality, which I believe to be more complicated a goal than simply saying "women can be lawyers and doctors now."

Now, people can reasonably disagree on this, but they shouldn't assume bad faith on my part when I say feminism is about equality. They should engage me about how my positions do or do not support that goal.

"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

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I take it by 'Africans', you mean 'black people'? - 22/08/2017 09:19:01 PM 545 Views
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*shrug* - 22/08/2017 09:56:20 PM 547 Views
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No, not yours *NM* - 23/08/2017 12:34:13 AM 317 Views
So that makes me wonder....What is the definition of a Feminist? - 22/08/2017 11:20:49 PM 584 Views
A person who supports feminism. - 22/08/2017 11:55:56 PM 637 Views
Motte and Bailey - 24/08/2017 10:22:03 PM 617 Views
? - 24/08/2017 10:34:34 PM 667 Views
The argument is - 24/08/2017 11:03:19 PM 541 Views
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Well, ok - 25/08/2017 12:19:24 AM 531 Views
Men! - 25/08/2017 09:28:21 AM 614 Views
I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. - 24/08/2017 10:36:31 PM 539 Views
Re: I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. - 24/08/2017 11:01:15 PM 612 Views
Re: I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. - 24/08/2017 11:34:24 PM 572 Views
Re: I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. - 25/08/2017 12:28:58 AM 595 Views
Re: I really like this analogy, but I think it's off base here. - 25/08/2017 03:33:53 AM 522 Views
Sometimes 'real' is the right word, though - 25/08/2017 03:01:16 PM 572 Views
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all the social justice people hide from one reality - 25/08/2017 03:40:51 PM 545 Views
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See, but it's the same thing.... - 25/08/2017 05:22:50 PM 635 Views
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It may not be what they intend but they ignore the real world consequences - 28/08/2017 02:25:23 PM 622 Views
Re: That's really not what "modern liberal social justice" thinks. - 28/08/2017 03:02:42 PM 607 Views
Only very briefly as I head off to work. - 28/08/2017 04:07:42 PM 471 Views
Well, I can see you're busy - 28/08/2017 04:36:55 PM 569 Views
All else being equal, yes. But that's sometimes difficult to visualize. - 29/08/2017 03:56:56 AM 603 Views
How about a kid who's family endows one or more chairs? Or built the new gym? *NM* - 29/08/2017 05:45:29 AM 293 Views
That's not "all else being equal." *NM* - 29/08/2017 05:35:13 PM 352 Views
I prefer Mott The Hoople *NM* - 24/08/2017 10:42:00 PM 286 Views
Oh look; a bunch of dudes discussing feminism! *NM* - 22/08/2017 11:49:25 PM 326 Views
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Well - 23/08/2017 09:02:28 AM 597 Views
I tried - 23/08/2017 11:41:00 AM 596 Views
It's odd - 23/08/2017 12:08:34 PM 593 Views
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Urban Minnesota is a bit of a haven, too. Plus we have agreeable weather with four seasons! - 23/08/2017 09:29:33 PM 584 Views
Pft, I've seen your mosquitos! *NM* - 24/08/2017 12:57:03 AM 304 Views
This year has been very mild. I think they're going the Way of the Bee. *NM* - 24/08/2017 11:26:10 PM 349 Views
Uhoh - 24/08/2017 11:47:16 PM 605 Views
Nope. Those bastards dont deserve your pity. They are parasites. - 25/08/2017 01:44:45 AM 562 Views
ANYWAY - 25/08/2017 09:30:31 AM 529 Views
Yes the virtues of having both extremes of weather - 25/08/2017 02:31:38 AM 557 Views
Hey! - 25/08/2017 10:41:16 AM 506 Views
Special rights don't lead to equality. *NM* - 23/08/2017 12:14:12 PM 285 Views
Is it even considered possible for cisgender men to be feminist? - 23/08/2017 12:48:28 AM 510 Views

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