I'm certainly not, and I'm your resident "girl power" progressive. The current season has been one where you're supposed to wonder whether the Targaryen madness actually did skip Danaerys. This doesn't seem to be an Egwene situation--you're supposed to be concerned with her actions, so you can be suitably impressed when Jon Snow sweeps her off her feet and teaches her how to be a good ruler and then they smooch.
Honestly, there are very, very few reasonable people on the show--it's one of my biggest turn offs. Yes, lots of powerful people are violent and bloodthirsty and cruel and backstabbing, but the history of the world's leaders is not one of unceasing stupidity. I think somewhere in the past two seasons, the show switched from a philosophy of "our viewers like it when actions have consequences" to "our viewers like it when bad things happen." Those categories overlap, to be sure, but they absolutely are not congruent. Just look at the disaster that was the Ramsay Bolton subplot for an example of what I mean.
From Theon, all the way to his death by Sansa & the dogs. That's one of the things that, IMO, highlights the phenomenon you reference concerning the shift towards exhibitionism. In the books, the degradation of Theon was largely off-screen, until he was brought out to attend Ramsay for the wedding & to get the ironborn to surrender. There was maybe a single mention that he had Theon captive in between the fall of Winterfell, and the emergence of "Reek". Since the show has proven they can call back actors after several years of being gone, like Gendry, it can't have been a case of needing to keep Alfie Allen busy until Theon is needed again, nor was Allen the sort of fan favorite character like Tyrion, whom people tuned in to see. And Allen is probably not so in demand as an actor that it's a case of "use him or lose him." They included the torture arc just for the sake of having bad things happen.
“Tolerance is the virtue of the man without convictions.” GK Chesteron
Inde muagdhe Aes Sedai misain ye!
Deus Vult!
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