Journal: Entry for The Secret Lurker
The daughters are going to London then on to Paris for the vacation I promised them. I am paying for my ex wife to go with them instead of my fiance and I. While they are liiving it up amongst the euros, we will be taking a honeymoon. Watch out Hawaii!!! Now that the plans have been laid, keep your fingers crossed that they do not go awry.
Re: Plans
The daughters are going to London then on to Paris for the vacation I promised them. I am paying for my ex wife to go with them instead of my fiance and I. While they are liiving it up amongst the euros, we will be taking a honeymoon. Watch out Hawaii!!! Now that the plans have been laid, keep your fingers crossed that they do not go awry.
I'm sad that you're not taking your daughters on the vacation you "promised" them. There really wasn't any other time to take your honeymoon?
I hope this isn't indicative of your fiancee's attitude in general towards them, that she and "her" kid(s) with you should come first. I don't say that to be mean, though I realize it might sound that way. It is a genuine hope of mine that she doesn't have that attitude, because that's how it reads from this turn of events.
I think you for the concern,
but this is just the way it has worked out. With the news that I am about to be a father for the third time, a transition at work to a new position, to keep my word to my daughters it is the only way to keep the knives juggling up in the air. My soon to be wife loves my girls and they love her. It is just that right now is the only time to put together a simple wedding, send my girls off to europe, with the ex to take care of them and to have an actual honeymoon before I am up to my neck in work starting the middle of January. Life comes at you fast sometimes. This is one of those times it is moving at warp speed.
Have a very merry christmas.
Have a very merry christmas.