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Well, I'm doing my best SilverWarder Send a noteboard - 25/03/2010 07:07:28 PM
And I am with Legolas that you need to let her know about what bothers you about this (but without losing it). That is part of what annoys (I realise that is a bit of a weak word) you about her way of dealing with your problems, after all.


Yeah, I know that. I'm leaving it for counselling in hopes it can be more positive rather than just mean.

But good luck. I can't believe how well you are dealing with this.


Thank you. I don't like this AT ALL, but it's there and I have to deal with it.

I do get a choice on HOW I deal with it, so I'm choosing to be as good a person as I can be. Worst comes to worse at least that will be remembered by someone.
May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk.

Old Egyptian Blessing
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Re: Well, actually she's still running her D&D game - 25/03/2010 07:26:47 PM 322 Views
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This. *NM* - 25/03/2010 08:00:40 PM 122 Views
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/me hugs I love Rafolites. *NM* - 25/03/2010 11:11:39 PM 127 Views
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I told you. Medication. - 25/03/2010 10:04:11 PM 313 Views
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ugh...stupid double post *NM* - 26/03/2010 03:59:45 AM 132 Views
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Have you considered Domestic Violence? *NM* - 26/03/2010 06:02:43 AM 146 Views
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i can't really add anything that hasn't been said before - 26/03/2010 06:10:47 AM 300 Views
:/ *hugs* *NM* - 30/03/2010 02:11:24 PM 126 Views

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