Not say say you shouldn't ask her to give you that time, just phrase it more elegantly.
This, obviously.

And seriously, actually celebrating anything more than years is silly. I mean, Nick and I acknowledge months because we're in a long distance relationship and it's reassuring to think about, but we don't CELEBRATE them.
I can understand this... and I'm sure I would have been the same if Andrew and I could remember which day was the "official we're together!" day... So, I just decided it was sometime in September. Who cares about the day?

Hold your ground. IMO, if she's pushing and pushing without thought for you and your feelings, then she's probably "needing to be loved" or something like that, and you're in for a ride anyways 

Formerly known as Screaming Defiance
Why do people say it?
26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM
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I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts
26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM
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The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it
26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM
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If I were you...
26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM
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agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided
26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM
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26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM
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I agree
but we happen to know the day
26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM
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I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea
26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM
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Not in this case.
26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM
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teenagers are just wierd
26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM
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She's not a teenager.
26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM
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Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there....
26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM
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It's a good tale of not just that...but of...
26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM
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I have a question.
27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM
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She is 26.
27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM
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Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she
27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM
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