I can think of several things to say to this. Mostly I agree with Sigman. Regardless of my feelings on spanking, those who equate spanking with assault are either incapable of rational thought or unwilling to apply it to the situation. Even if all people who abuse their children spank their children, not all people who spank their children are child abusers. Middle term, people. Distribute it.
I was spanked as a kid and it did me no harm. I was more worried about getting some sort of prolonged punishment such as being grounded for a month than being spanked, learning my lesson and moving on.
Spoiled, barbaric kids are one of the biggest problems in western society. On my way down to the coast last week a screaming toddler was performing constantly on the plane with the mother trying to console him with some sort of weak disciplinary technique which was more like bargaining than parenting. It even got worse and he started throwing his food around. It wasn't hard to see what all the passengers around them were thinking. On the way back a week later there was a similar child. The mother put him over her knee and spanked his butt once. It was like a thunderclap, but after that he sat still and was normal.
There's nothing wrong with negative reinforcement. It just took some idiots who beat their kids blue or used whips and iron bars to ruin it for all of us. Now you can't touch kids and its a free for all. Just look at the anarchy in cinemas these days.
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Smacked children more successful later in life, study finds
05/01/2010 08:20:35 AM
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I am a firm believer in physically reprimanding your kids if need be
05/01/2010 01:45:24 PM
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This is what I like to hear. Kids need to be knocked around a bit.
05/01/2010 01:46:25 PM
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Yes
05/01/2010 03:43:45 PM
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YES! Beat their bad little asses with no shame! Viva la revolucion! *NM*
05/01/2010 04:06:36 PM
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It's a pretty small study, but it's nice to see someone at least looking at the other side of things *NM*
05/01/2010 04:39:49 PM
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Those researchers should know better than to publish that. Children have no long-term memories of...
05/01/2010 05:06:21 PM
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I don't know. I mean, yes it could be better designed
05/01/2010 05:17:02 PM
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Interview studies are suspect in general.
05/01/2010 05:31:31 PM
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we can't really judge simply on what a newspaper reported.
05/01/2010 05:47:13 PM
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Better study:
05/01/2010 06:58:04 PM
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yes because a parent wouldn't lie about how they hit their kid.
05/01/2010 07:02:10 PM
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First, I am not outraged. Second, this study is pure junk because of what I said.
06/01/2010 01:16:04 AM
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Re: Better study:
06/01/2010 03:16:03 PM
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Re: I want Camilla and Ben to come here and argue about this. And Tim's dad. <mourns> *NM*
06/01/2010 05:51:57 AM
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