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Yeah, passive-aggressive types hate it when you call them out on it. It's like a hobby for me. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 17/12/2009 03:38:22 AM
Do you hold a grudge?

Nope. I don't have enough energy or brain power for that.

If yes, do you give it up after a few years, or do you CONTINUE to hold a grudge (assume this is a person you still have to see for whatever reason)

Unless they keep being a jerk, there really is no reason other than that you want to keep it going.

Aside from the obvious "its easier to let it go" (cuz sometimes it's just not - for whatever reason) Why do you eventually let a grudge go?

Seriously, "lazy" truly is an accurate term for me. Also, I know that I don't like it when people are annoyed with me, so I try to let it go when I am annoyed. Also, many fights start with misunderstandings, and I wouldn't want to find that out six years later rather than solving it (relatively) quickly.

If you don't hold a grudge, why do you let people walk all over you? (lol.. I'm kidding.. just answer this.. "why don't you hold a grudge?";)

Pft. It's very unlikely that they do.:P I tend to tell them what I'm thinking right when I'm thinking it. It's good for my sanity, because I cannot STAND passive-aggressive tactics and the like.
"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

Ghavrel is Ghavrel is Ghavrel

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