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I can think of only one. Craig Send a noteboard - 16/12/2009 05:27:22 AM
Do you hold a grudge?

On very rare occasions, yes.

If yes, do you give it up after a few years, or do you CONTINUE to hold a grudge (assume this is a person you still have to see for whatever reason)

There's one I still hold. Anything else pretty much fades over time.

Aside from the obvious "its easier to let it go" (cuz sometimes it's just not - for whatever reason) Why do you eventually let a grudge go?

Primarily because I stop caring enough to maintain "grudge"-level emotions about it.


That said, I do have a humourous entry to add. Probably twenty years or so ago, my sister and I wanted to get a free small ice-cream cone at McDonald's, and our dad wouldn't let us for some reason or other. He informed us that we wouldn't even remember it in a week. We decided then and there (8 and 5 years old) that we would never forget or forgive - and we never have. ;)
I am made of poison.
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I hold one grudge. @my - 17/12/2009 05:40:59 AM 448 Views
I can think of only one. Craig - 16/12/2009 05:27:22 AM 429 Views
no. no grudges. temeraire - 16/12/2009 05:35:59 AM 379 Views
Talk of grudges always reminds me of certain SFF novels... TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2009 06:14:48 AM 407 Views
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I typically don't care enough about people I dislike to hold grudges against them. Ghavrel - 16/12/2009 08:09:07 AM 434 Views
Not for very long ironclad - 16/12/2009 08:48:56 AM 456 Views
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No. I don't hold onto negative emotions. The Shrike - 16/12/2009 02:05:34 PM 399 Views
No, I'm lazy. *NM* cabbage - 16/12/2009 04:17:09 PM 154 Views
Best. Answer. Ever! *NM* Amys - 18/12/2009 05:10:48 PM 162 Views
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Not any more Hieshyn - 16/12/2009 09:57:28 PM 347 Views
I'm much more likely to get bored of people. Liam - 17/12/2009 01:37:36 AM 350 Views
I rarely hold grudges. It takes an extreme case. For example: Erith - 17/12/2009 01:38:59 AM 528 Views
Oh! Apart from Sol Campbell. Liam - 17/12/2009 01:39:20 AM 391 Views
Judges nossy - 17/12/2009 02:37:47 AM 397 Views
Yeah, passive-aggressive types hate it when you call them out on it. It's like a hobby for me. Ghavrel - 17/12/2009 03:38:22 AM 461 Views
I totally hold a grudge. StarEnight - 17/12/2009 09:10:44 PM 382 Views
It doesn't help that she's a c-word all by herself. *NM* @my - 17/12/2009 09:16:22 PM 165 Views
Hardly. Helene - 20/12/2009 07:54:45 AM 360 Views
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