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Re: Grudges @my Send a noteboard - 16/12/2009 05:14:35 AM
Do you hold a grudge?


Yes I do. However, it takes being wronged either many, many times, or being wronged in such a HUGE way that there is no turning back for me to hold one. Otherwise, no. (Basically, if I lose the trust that you can behave like a human around me, I write that person off, no matter who it is.)

If yes, do you give it up after a few years, or do you CONTINUE to hold a grudge (assume this is a person you still have to see for whatever reason)


Nope. Cold. Dead. Hands.

Aside from the obvious "its easier to let it go" (cuz sometimes it's just not - for whatever reason) Why do you eventually let a grudge go?


I don't.

If you don't hold a grudge, why do you let people walk all over you? (lol.. I'm kidding.. just answer this.. "why don't you hold a grudge?";)


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Amy
formerly known as Amyrlin



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