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When I originally wrote this , this morning, I was feeling kinda mopey. StarrBecca Send a noteboard - 30/11/2009 10:09:45 PM
Loving someone is different from being in love. It can get you through when the infatuation/passion is lacking. I really don't think many people manage to be dewy-eyed romantics 100% of the time. For myself... this is kind of sad to say, but as long as I have depression, I'll have periods when I don't really feel "in love." The two things are just so contradictory, and when you're that down, you don't like anything much. But if the person I care about ever needed me during those periods, I would still do everything I could to be there for him, and I hope he knows that. Love is constant even when nothing else is.

I hadn't really expected it to turn into THIS. But I'm happy it has. You never really know what G-d has planned when you do the random things you do.
That said, I do like to think that people can be together for many years and still have those really sweet moments of hand-holding or appreciating each other, as well as a genuine sexual attraction. If I thought that were impossible then I would just stay single. :P
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Doesn't anybody stay in love anymore? *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 03:36:53 PM 559 Views
I do *NM* Camilla - 30/11/2009 03:50:00 PM 284 Views
D'oh. ..well, I mean good for you! just d'oh for me. *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 03:51:50 PM 294 Views
I do. *NM* Rebekah - 30/11/2009 03:51:17 PM 297 Views
Same applies to you as Camilla. StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 03:53:47 PM 442 Views
Awwww. Rebekah - 30/11/2009 03:54:26 PM 496 Views
<3 back at you, Babe. StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 04:09:08 PM 505 Views
Love is a beast like a snake... feed it once a week or it dies. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/11/2009 03:55:55 PM 277 Views
^0 I do, or I have been trying to. *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 04:10:16 PM 287 Views
It is normal to both fall in love and out of love. The Shrike - 30/11/2009 03:58:40 PM 486 Views
the ebb and flow of society. Sometimes you're on top and sometimes you're not. *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 04:11:40 PM 291 Views
and sometimes you switch *NM* LadyLorraine - 30/11/2009 04:20:48 PM 233 Views
And sometimes switching frequently helps you stay in love *NM* Lupine - 30/11/2009 06:36:53 PM 307 Views
it at least keeps things interesting *NM* LadyLorraine - 30/11/2009 07:19:32 PM 245 Views
Let me tell you, ladies... after 10 years even switching gets predictable. *NM* Avendesora - 01/12/2009 12:42:00 AM 285 Views
stop ruining the magic *NM* LadyLorraine - 01/12/2009 01:23:24 AM 297 Views
You're welcome. *NM* Avendesora - 01/12/2009 01:41:35 AM 189 Views
Depends on your definition PhotoJim - 30/11/2009 04:34:51 PM 577 Views
I love this. *NM* Rebekah - 30/11/2009 07:52:26 PM 271 Views
That was inspiring and gave me hope. Thank you. *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 10:04:52 PM 287 Views
Thanks. I know how lucky I am. And I make sure I tell her that too. *NM* PhotoJim - 30/11/2009 11:52:25 PM 300 Views
This one. Avendesora - 01/12/2009 01:44:55 AM 483 Views
no but you keep having sex anyways since have no other valid options *NM* random thoughts - 30/11/2009 04:35:36 PM 285 Views
You're such a romantic. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/11/2009 04:39:48 PM 196 Views
F-NO! Love is a joke. It is like sea monkeys. Waste of damn time and money. Animosity - 30/11/2009 05:33:27 PM 504 Views
/me hugs Monroe!! it's always better to be pissed off than pissed on! *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 10:06:29 PM 218 Views
I really like Photo Jim's reply. Lupine - 30/11/2009 06:33:14 PM 537 Views
When I originally wrote this , this morning, I was feeling kinda mopey. StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 10:09:45 PM 588 Views
I prefer yours. Joel - 02/12/2009 01:16:42 AM 537 Views
I've been with my husband 10 years - love him more now than ever. Erith - 30/11/2009 07:03:20 PM 458 Views
Awesome. *NM* Rebekah - 30/11/2009 07:51:20 PM 306 Views
You're very lucky. *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 10:11:18 PM 288 Views
I'll agree we are lucky. But it still takes effort and a willing spirit. *NM* Erith - 01/12/2009 11:53:35 PM 320 Views
pretty much our situation as well. *NM* PhotoJim - 30/11/2009 11:51:26 PM 274 Views
some people. *NM* LadyLorraine - 30/11/2009 07:32:05 PM 279 Views
Love is just a means to finding a suiteble partner for breeding purposes. Jonielle - 30/11/2009 07:56:11 PM 409 Views
but what about love between those who have no desire to breed? LadyLorraine - 30/11/2009 08:05:00 PM 506 Views
Even if they don't want or can breed subconciosly love is still the same thing. *NM* Jonielle - 30/11/2009 08:21:03 PM 285 Views
*shrug* I disagree with you. LadyLorraine - 30/11/2009 08:27:48 PM 484 Views
Ok. *NM* Jonielle - 30/11/2009 08:28:35 PM 304 Views
Well, you never know. Some do, some don't. ironclad - 30/11/2009 08:23:09 PM 531 Views
/me bows to the Jedi Master! So Wise Jens!! *NM* StarrBecca - 30/11/2009 10:12:46 PM 272 Views
Yep...Geniac and I have been together 10 years... Antigone - 01/12/2009 12:50:28 AM 512 Views
*NM* Lupine - 01/12/2009 01:30:58 AM 296 Views
Wrong spot. Again. *NM* Tashmere - 01/12/2009 02:16:48 AM 295 Views
Yeah, but not the same feeling you get when you first meet someone and start a new relationship. Tashmere - 01/12/2009 02:19:39 AM 369 Views
I wouldlove to see me happy,too. StarrBecca - 01/12/2009 02:46:18 AM 559 Views
Yes. Joel - 02/12/2009 01:22:33 AM 525 Views
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