which one do you prefur?

Tea.

milk and or sugar, yay or nay?

Depends. Usually both in blended teas and Assams, and even some China blacks. Pu Erh, however, I drink black with no sugar.

does tea equal brit and coffee equal american?

Oh, I dunno. Americans do seem to be obsessed with coffee though. And the Irish drink more tea than Britain does.

what is the most disgusting tea/coffee you've ever drunk?

I don't know if I've ever had any disgusting tea or coffee, but most bagged teas are pretty flavourless (that has to do with quality and freshness).

ditto coffee?

I don't drink coffee.

what do you enjoy dunking in your favoured drink?

Not a thing!

is hot chocolate a viable third option for 'grown ups' or is it a kiddy drink?

Sure it's a good option for adults, especially on cold nights.

what is it about coffee that you dislike?

Aftertaste, bad breath, and feeling dehydrated.

why is it that tea gone cold is vile but iced tea is delicious?

Tea gone cold is not really that terrible. Iced tea is just . . . no thank you.

cafitieres, pretentious kitchen gadget or actualy useful?

pretentious kitchen gadget.

tea cosies, love em or hate em?

I like them, but most are a bit too flowery for me, and I usually use a two-cup teapot. For that I use a small towel.

how often do you drink tea or coffee?

I drink tea every day, about four cups or so, sometimes more, sometimes less.

Coffee--never.

favourite brand of tea?

Special Teas! Barry's Gold is good too, and English Tea Store Brand is usually pretty good.

favourite brand of coffee?

None.