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Never paid a dime. Missa Sedai Send a noteboard - 04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM

I'm kind of hoping not. They should contact him with a legal order for full back child support, and offer to "let him off the hook" if he signs away his rights. Bribe him. It will be a much better situation for the child and for your brother.


That's a good way to handle it.
~ Missa

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