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True... Missa Sedai Send a noteboard - 03/11/2009 11:23:55 PM

It doesn't change their relationship with the boy one bit, unless they let it (but something tells me that people who are that amazing about putting their attention where it belongs, i.e., their grandchild and not their deadbeat kid, are going to understand this just fine).


My brother and sister-in-law would just have to be adamant about maintaining their connection with the in-laws so that they would never feel shut out.
~ Missa

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Changing your child's name... Missa Sedai - 02/11/2009 11:07:40 PM 865 Views
I'm an observer. nossy - 02/11/2009 11:16:50 PM 649 Views
Is your brother going to actually adopt the child? Tashmere - 02/11/2009 11:54:20 PM 661 Views
My brother wants to, but... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:18:20 PM 594 Views
Does he pay child support? Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:38:33 AM 523 Views
Never paid a dime. Missa Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM 528 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Beqi - 04/11/2009 03:24:02 AM 554 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Angel Barchild - 05/11/2009 07:35:05 AM 511 Views
I'd only change the name if he adopted the son legally. Beqi - 03/11/2009 12:23:08 AM 540 Views
I agree with you and Tash... Antigone - 03/11/2009 03:22:28 AM 543 Views
The thing is... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:19:45 PM 500 Views
Concur Isaac - 03/11/2009 06:56:54 PM 576 Views
I'm more interested in the feelings/needs of the child than the feelings of adults. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:16:49 AM 538 Views
I really like this reply and agree with everything in it... Lupine - 03/11/2009 01:23:15 AM 560 Views
There's bad things, and there's bad things. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:46:33 PM 485 Views
I don't know the full details of the first marriage... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM 523 Views
True... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:23:55 PM 567 Views
Yes. Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:36:24 AM 580 Views
My situation was almost the same. mapthis - 03/11/2009 02:10:24 AM 600 Views
My sister changed her name when she ascended to the Crystal Throne, may she live forever. Blaine - 03/11/2009 02:52:35 AM 627 Views
Not me, but..... Kat - 03/11/2009 03:07:28 AM 636 Views
I personally believe the boy should keep his biological fathers last name no matter what *NM* Aisha - 03/11/2009 03:18:24 AM 242 Views
I'm curious why you believe this. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:54:40 PM 532 Views
I'm a bit curious too...explain. *NM* Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:31:02 PM 233 Views
personal belief Aisha - 04/11/2009 03:44:35 PM 501 Views
Are they changing his name to Clark Kent? If so, I don't think the kid will have a problem. *NM* callandor1000 - 03/11/2009 04:04:35 AM 240 Views
I gave She her dad's last name, we weren't married, had no real intentions of getting married, StarrBecca - 03/11/2009 05:10:31 AM 530 Views
Happened to my dad (kinda). Craig - 03/11/2009 05:25:52 AM 512 Views
Here are my thoughts (I have been in a somewhat similar situation). everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:52:17 AM 596 Views
Curious Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:59:30 PM 543 Views
Re: Curious everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:46:52 PM 605 Views
I am in a similar position. Seriana Sedai - 03/11/2009 07:18:57 AM 548 Views
I'd wait until the child is old enough to want to himself Monkey - 03/11/2009 07:29:36 AM 523 Views
I think I kind of agree here... Tashmere - 06/11/2009 03:28:31 AM 572 Views
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