Not none, but similar ones on a wotmania CMB with orders of magnitude more activity and posters (again, including at least two transgendered people) drew far fewer complaints because they were far less belligerently demeaning. I know that from authoring more than a few.
And yes, if you attribute stereotypes and prejudices against gays, then you're a homophobe. Like, that is what that word means.
I'm sorry if you feel like you're being pigeonholed. I'm sure you're a complex, beautiful person, and it probably hurts to be marginalized and described by only one of your attributes (hint). That attribute being, of course, how you feel trans people should be treated.
(Note that I'm not condemning you for thinking transgenderism is a mental illness. I think you're wrong about that, for reasons that I'll go into later. But what I'm criticizing is your reaction to this, and how you think trans people should be treated.)
And yes, you are definitely free to express your opinions. Note that no one is suggesting you be banned, or this thread deleted, or anything like that?
Stop being a martyr. Just because people disagree with you and tell you you're wrong, doesn't mean you're being oppressed.
These two quotations are dealing with the same thing, albeit in different ways, so I am taking them as one for my response.
First, yes, had I or anyone said 'all gays mean to rape our sons and spread AIDS to everyone!', I WOULD be a homophobe. However, all that I and most reasonable people have said, is that we think their acts are morally reprehensible, and as such, should not be supported. That is not homophobia, that is a legitimately held religious belief, and to label and write off someone for their beliefs is not only offensive to them, it is offensive to the founding principles of this nation.
If you disagree with me, fine, but I'm not going to label you a 'fudgepacker lover', and likewise, you have no right to label me a 'homophobe'.
Just for the record: Transgendered=/=gay. Transgendered people certainly CAN be gay and often are, but some are also straight. That is actually a good example of how mutable gender is distinct from unalterable sex: Does "straight transgendered" mean someone attracted to their ORIGINAL or NEW gender? Is someone born a man and attracted exclusively to women, but also a transgendered woman, a lesbian or straight transgendered woman? If exclusively attracted to men, are they still gay? WERE the gay when identifying as a woman despite their male anatomy? Are THEY the straight transgendered woman? All because GENDER changed, but neither sex nor sexuality did.
Agreed, at least for my part: I strongly prefer Holmes' "clear and present danger" test from Schenk, because the vagueness of Brandenburgs "imminent lawless action" is perversely too broad AND narrow at once. The letter of Brandenburg denies First Amendment protection to ALL civil disobedience, even NON-VIOLENT forms (and violence is a critical test for me.) Were Brandenburg just a decade earlier it could have been used to justify arresting civil rights protesters: Segregation was the law, so urging people to defy it by sitting at white-only lunch counters or refusing to move when ordered to the back of the bus was "inciting imminent lawless action." On the other hand, exhorting crowds to "kill whitey" REMAINS perfectly fine as long it does not imply "right now." It is OK to urge murdering people GENERALLY, but not the immediate murder of anyone standing right there.
Westboro fails BOTH tests, IMHO, because under the legal principle of "fighting words" they are practically begging surviving veterans and families to beat the snot out of them, just as Cannoli is provoking people with transgendered friends/family along with the transgendered themselves. But what really bothers me (since ya'll are discussing THAT group) is that the Klan has also used Brandenburg to avoid prosecution by essentially arguing their rallies state no specific plan of action or targets, just frequently and explicitly encourage murdering non-whites whenever the opportunity arises rather than right this second. How indiscriminate mass murder without warning is LESS dangerous escapes me. Imminent acts are far more transitory than present dangers, because a danger can continuously persist to a far greater extent than an act.
In general, I oppose hatred but support the RIGHT to hate along with the right to many things I oppose. But right of expression ends where it indisputably harms another, including all violence. In addition, the Fourteenth Amendments Equal Protection and Privileges & Immunities Clauses forbid LEGISLATING even nonviolent discrimination. I still feel we should let markets correct bigoted business owners through revenue lost by denying some patrons and consequent ostracism by others, but public service is just that, and the public is everyone.
That is a fair point as far as it goes; guilt by association is never merited, and arguments should always be to merit, never author. It makes a (too often literally) grave difference that Klan arguments go much farther than the noted similarity; again, they do not simply claim the right to express disagreement, but express hatred, to the point of urging murder. Since the right to express disagreement is not in dispute, Klan comparisons are only valid to the extent one shares their less tolerable positions, so disavowing them disavows the Klan. All that said, the right to express disagreement was NEVER in dispute, so charges of liberal censorship are equally invalid.
That is largely what the OP did though; "arguments to meanness" simply jeopardize man cards so badly "fairness" was substituted. But look at the substantive objections: Liberals make me do this, liberals forbid I do that. Not things that are human or civil rights; not "liberals make me have a sex change" or "liberals forbid I (verbally) transbash," but "liberals say things I dispute, and refuse to smack people in the head until they stop being transgender." Boo hoo, he is "forbidden" to dictate others peoples lives, and cloaks resentment of that in righteous indignation.
So, are you saying that we shouldn't listen to people, or that you disagree with my argument that liberals are writing people off? I am assuming it is the latter, in which case, I don't think this is a point I would be able to change your mind on. So I guess I'll just echo your sentiment, and say that I am free to say that I think you're wrong. Agree to disagree I guess.
Have I written you off? Did beetnemesis? He explicitly denied it further down the post, (correctly) noting writing off people precludes responding. As long as we are still having a discussion, WE are still having a discussion; I spend very little time beating up strawmen.
I get the impression that you haven't done any research in this area. You should. Long story short, there are fundamental characteristics of transgender brains that are different than cisgender* brains. I'll link to a Wikipedia summary, if you'd like.
So it comes down to that. If we can see that there are actual, physical brain differences in a transgender person, what do we do? Even if we had the technology (which we do not), do we "fix" them? Would you fix someone who is left handed instead of right handed? Maybe if they asked you to. Or maybe stores would just also sell some left-handed scissors and you would get on with your life.
*cisgender means, essentially, sex and gender match. Please do not pitch a fit about liberals making up words.
As to your main point, I will freely admit I am no professional in this area; my opinions come from a religious basis combined with my own observations. A cursory google search brings up a page and a half of links to this study in Spain about brain differences in transgender people, and, to me, this both changes a lot, and changes nothing.
It changes much, because, just as I once believed you couldn't be born gay, before I worked with a couple of homosexuals, it turns out I may be wrong on the transgender issue in this instance.
However, it also changes nothing, because, from a religious basis, it is still a reprehensible act. We all have our trials in this life, but the whole point of being religious is that you are supposed to overcome those trials. A lesbian can be religious, but she must hold to her faith and live by it, and if that means not acting on her natural urges, so be it.
Now, do not get me wrong; I fully understand that, as a religious person, I can NOT expect non-religious folk from living by my standards. I get that, honest.
But, you(and the rest of the liberals) must understand that, to people who hold these legitimate beliefs, you can NOT force us to accept your standards, either. It's a double-edged sword, and liberals seem focused on pretending their edge isn't there.
Sorry, card-carrying liberal here (despite a long-time friend recently telling me he has long considered me "the most conservative liberal I know,") and I have made that same "argument to original sin" many times. The problem is it is no axiom outside Christianity and therefore provides no SUPPORT anywhere else unless universal depravity is first PROVEN. Frankly, humanitys record is such I think it SHOULD be recognized as an axiom, but many people still dispute it so it is not, even though the evidence is overwhelming in that I have never met anyone who denied universal depravity and could provide counterevidence by truthfully noting they (or ANYONE they knew of) had NEVER done ANYTHING wrong. Yet most still required reminders of the evidence.
That is a key problem, because virtually everyone who does not accept universal depravity (or some analogue) considers it (ironically) unnatural and wrong to deny anything that appears integral to their being. Rejecting INBORN carnality rejects the natural v. spiritual man argument; everything "natural," present from birth, inseparable from a person etc. is a defining quality. Expecting they deny that is like asking they deny their eye color: It is what it is however one feels about it, and no one should be made to feel guilty about any immutable, fundamental quality they could not control even if inclined. The Catholic Church addresses homosexuality (which, again, is distinct from being transgendered) perfectly in dogma and horribly in practice, but even the dogma is irrelevant to non-Catholics except as evidence of hypocrisy.
So yeah, you are perfectly free to make the arguments (really) but no, non-religious people will not accept them, at least not without deeper foundation work first. Expecting to build a house on Rock is expecting too much of logic. I remain convinced logic is sufficient to get one to Deism, and probably Theism; no one gets to Christ except by faith, because if God COMPELS belief by PROVING His existence He denies us free will and thus HIS love along with ours, plus it is beyond presumptuous for anyone (much less an inveterate sinner) to make demands of God in the first place.
All that is a RELIGIOUS rather than POLITICAL difference though; just look at a religious conservative disputing both my religious views and (some of) Cannolis political ones. Despite claiming one, conservatives have no monopoly on Christ (Who sadly has none on them either:) No one does.
There a few questions you're raising here, all of which are much more complex than you seem to think. For example, what is a mental illness? Is the answer, "someone who radically deviates from the "norm," or maybe "someone who can't perceive reality?"
But pretty much no one is the "norm." And human brains are notorious for constantly fooling themselves.
You say you see LGBT people as people. So that's good. A gay man is pretty radically different. And a lot of people would say that the "reality" is that men are attracted to women. How should we deal with that?
That's not a rhetorical question- how should we deal with gay men, TyrReborn?
So, skipping to the end of this line of thought, it seems to me that "mental illness" is only an issue when it affects the quality of life of the person or others.
Does a person with a penis thinking he's a woman somehow make him unfit to function in society? Does it make him unable to think, love, work? Does throwing on a dress make him likely to attack someone?
No, it does not. And therefore, is not a mental illness. At worst, it's like being gay, or left-handed.
(i.e. something that doesn't matter, yet conservatives over history have pitched a fit about. Yes, left-handedness is in that category).
So in the end, if it turns out the only impact to a transman's quality of life is how people like you treat him... which should we fix? Which CAN we fix? (Those gay-rehabilitation camps don't work so well)
You haven't written me off, and because of that, you're already doing better than 95% of liberals. High five, you can actually discuss something without getting pissed!
Well, there we are then: Only 3 righteous liberals to go to save RAFO, though these days it is hard to find 3 RAFOlk of ANY kind (“Let every evil lung fill!”)
'Mental illness', as defined by the Mayo Clinic, is
Many people have mental health concerns from time to time. But a mental health concern becomes a mental illness when ongoing signs and symptoms cause frequent stress and affect your ability to function.
A mental illness can make you miserable and can cause problems in your daily life, such as at work or in relationships. In most cases, symptoms can be managed with a combination of medications and counseling (psychotherapy).
That is all well for sheep, but what are we to do?
So, by this definition, transsexualism hits every single point of a mental illness.
TransGENDERISM (in such a long complex discussion I also cannot promise to always maintain the distinction; old habits die hard. )
Religion and politics (to name but a few things) each affect mood, thinking and behavior, too, but few classify them as mental illness; those effects may be NECESSARY to show mental illness, but not SUFFICIENT: Other factors are also required. One is frequent stress and inability to function, but being transgendered cause that, or fear of LIVING as transgendered due to ATTACHED STIGMA? My sample is small, but I have never heard any transgendered people say BEING transgendered caused them any misery, only that DENYING and CONCEALING it caused great misery. I have uniformly heard transgendered people—even post-operative ones (whose beds are made)—express MASSIVE relief, peace and far greater happiness almost the moment transitioning begins. I have never heard any say BEING transgendered caused any daily work/relationship problems, but heard many say social INTOLERANCE caused huge problems with family, friends and/or colleagues. On the other hand, many others have said family, friends and/or colleagues were mostly far more tolerant than expected, contributing to that sense of relief; being transgendered cost them neither their careers nor familys love: They were just conditioned to EXPECT it would.
The sole area I can see being transgendered (at least medically) ITSELF might cause problems with family and/or “ability to function” is childbearing, at least as technology stands. But some forethought (and no one has a sex change without a LOT of forethought) sperm or eggs can be saved pre-op to ameliorate that problem, which surrogates can further address. The remaining issue is how/when to break all that to a potential mate, and how they react.
Back when I still wasted time on FB I ran across a post from someone angrily denying any duty to tell dates, boy/girlfriends or even SPOUSES they are transgendered: That is private and anyone “intolerant” enough to CARE whether they are transgendered is probably an awful undesirable partner anyway, but the “prejudice,” and thus onus to ASK, is solely on them. Never mind that ASKING NON-transgendered people if they are one is at least as awkward and alienating as REVEALING ones transgendered state to them, even if they are not potential (much less actual) romantic partners, but ESPECIALLY if they are. And never mind that most people want to eventually have kids, and a transgendered person always knows THAT answer, while any straight partner must either ask or wait for the other person to reveal: Where does that unequal knowledge place the onus?
Before anyone mentions it: Yes, I am aware of adoption, but the most absolute form of union between people is LITERAL merger at the genetic level, jointly nurtured and taught from birth. I would never diminish the adopted parent relationship in any way, and it largely provides the latter part of that—but not the experience of looking at ones child and physically SEEING ones spouse. Again, the absence of that in no way cheapens adoptive parenthood, which remains infinitely rewarding and gratifying (ideally no less so for the child.) But a biological relationship cannot help but greatly ENHANCE parenthoods joys. Even if the other parent is a psycho permanently part of the childs (and thus other parents) life.
Sorry if that got tangential, but it is the only truly serious yet inevitable issue I can see as a consequence of being transgendered. As elsewhere noted, Jenner already sired half a dozen kids by three different wives and now publicly identifies as “non-sexual,” making all of that a non-issue. For younger people that is less so, just one more reason I agree with those who would deny legal minors all medical treatment with permanent effects, whether or not their guardians grant permission for that treatment.
True, no one should be forced (or pressured) to hide their sexuality, but everyone ostentatious about it merits natural complaints for publicly displaying their sexuality ITSELF, not its particular form. It might be hard (even though true) to convince others one is as expressively disgusted about straight PDAs as gay ones, but as long as the rule is consistent, it is fair. Not necessarily reasonable; when I go out to eat or the movies, especially with my toddler, I do not want the people next to me having sex regardless of WHAT their sexuality is, but people who say things like “could you please stop kissing: I am trying to eat” have never made much sense to me. Plenty of people say it to straights and gays alike though, so are more neurotic than bigoted. And still properly distinct from gender; we do not give people with no Y chromosome dirty looks for walking down the street in a dress, and should treat others doing so no differently (OK, if a guy has a beard and a dress I will think it bit strange, but that is because even women prone to thick facial hair rarely have beards.)
However, while gay-rehab camps don't work, because they're run by assholes, that does not mean that we shouldn't try to help people with body image issues either. A teenage girl has bulimia, a body image issue, so we try and help her. A teenage girl thinks she should have been a man, an obvious body image issue, we should try and help her.
Here my ignorance of details emerges: I do not know how inevitable gender identity (nor sexuality) is. I suspect it is a combination of nature AND environment, like many things, but the precise ratio, the permanence of gender identity, and when that permanence exists (assuming it is not “birth”) has great bearing on whether ANY “remedial” or “therapeutic” measures would even be POSSIBLE, whether or not they were moral. If gender identity is wholly or even largely inborn, attempts to alter it can be no more than an excruciatingly and permanently scarring waste of time for all involved: The sole options are “repress or do not; there is no ‘try.’”
It is unclear that is justified EVEN from a purely religious perspective, because SEXUAL MORALITY is distinct from GENDER IDENTITY. Tons of straight “cisnormal” people commit fornication and adultery daily. Gender identity does not dictate sexual identity, so even if one accepts the biblical prohibition of (male) homosexuality (one of the few parts of the Torah the Holy Spirit and first apostles maintained for gentile Christians) transgendered people can be either gay OR straight. I guess I answered my own earlier question: Since homo/heterosexuality is a function of SEX, a physically male gay person who transitions to a woman remains gay despite attraction to the opposite GENDER (NOT sex) and a straight person who does the same remains straight. So adherence to Christian doctrine sometimes requires abstinence (and not only for gays) but I see no reason it requires repressing gender, even gender at odds with ones sex.
The Torah DOES forbid cross dressing, but also pork, shellfish and using the bathroom within a campsite, and I do not believe ancient Jewish High Priests left Jerusalem every time they defecated any more than any of us leave our modern permanent campsites to do so. We do not execute our children for sass either. There are MANY OT prohibitions designed to preserve Israels identity either as a small group of nomads or a slightly larger settled nation among exclusively pagan neighbors, but the Christian position is quite clear that the written Word only DESCRIBES righteousness: The Word Made Flesh DEFINES it.
An opinion isn't a magical, untouchable thing. If you can't defend it, and it's not strong enough to stand on its own, it's not going to last.
I disagree with you here, a lot of people have been ignoring points. Some are providing legitimate arguments against his points, yes, but to say that 'no one' is ignoring them is flat out wrong, sorry.
I will take that on faith since I cannot recall each persons initial response in full and am too tired to doublecheck. I believe most people did dispute rather than ignore his thesis though, with some variation of “no one denies people with Y chromosomes are just that, only that their immutable sex makes their gender equally so.”
My standard line (partly paraphrasing Socrates, arguably the first pagan monotheist) is that the unexamined faith is not worth professing, because faith that cannot withstand scrutiny rarely withstands much else. Goes along with the line about fear of Hell keeping no one out of it, because only love by and for God can do that, which in turn goes with loves inability to be coerced. Even by “loving” smacks to the head, even if the (former) Secy. of Health and Human Services were to mandate them. Only one Being has the power or right to COMPEL anyone to do anything; since HE refuses it is the height of presumption and essence of evil for any other to attempt with neither power nor right.</platitude>
First - My issue with labeling is that labels were, very originally, a means of dehumanizing an opponent, either a single person, an opposing tribe, or an enemy nation.
So, since labeling is inherently a way of making the label-ee lesser, we must take very deep care in this age of not following this same mistake.
Let's take 3 examples. An inner-city youth, an adult farm worker, and a suburban stay-at-home parent. So, from these 3 very non-descriptive examples, your mind can draw a picture of them. Maybe the youth is a young man making straight As trying to get out of the inner city; the worker is trying to support her family back in her home nation; the parent is doing the best he can to raise his kids.
But then, slap a label on them; an at-risk youth, an illegal immigrant, and a soccer dad.
These labels immediately reduce your mental image of a vibrant human being, trying to overcome their own trials to improve their life and those around them, to a one-dimensional paper cutout, whose motivations and struggles have no bearing on how they are treated.
That is why I have such a huge problem with labels. Each and every one of the, what almost 8 billion inhabitants of this planet is a person, and NO person can be reduced down to one word without ignoring and demeaning what it is to be a person.
I believe it is closer to 7 billion, just for the anal retentive record. Labels have value so long as we remember humanity does and will always consist of 7+ billion unique individuals. Being a leftist no more precludes my Christianity (or vice versa) than Martin Luther Kings, and being on the right no more precludes anyones areligiousness (or vice versa) than it did Ayn Rands. Though I must reiterate than when I see a deeply intelligent person publicly proclaim Rand and St. Thomas Aquinas his two greatest guides I cannot help thinking he is so full of excrement his eyes must be brown, and unqualified to run so much as a hot dog stand whether he is lying or “merely” delusional.
Point being, labels were not created to dehumanize (who did Socrates dehumanize, or Plato if we consider him an unreliable chronicler?) Labels were created because valuable, valid and even VITAL descriptors to the extent ACCURATE—and not a micron further. When used to conflate, homogenize and diminish diverse multitudes based on a single common (and often irrelevant) trait, they harm our reasoning as much as their targets. Whether the label in question is “Christian” or “liberal.” Especially in the second case, because “liberal” means different and even OPPOSING things depending on time/location (and even when synonymous with the left, there are fundamental differences between “paleoliberal” Great Society/New Dealers and the “neoliberal” New Left, mainly in replacing universal economic equality, opportunity and empowerment with identity politics.)
As a religious person, when it comes to these LGBT issues, there are 4 options.
1. God does not like these illicit unions, and I do not like them because of that.
2. God does not like these illicit unions, but I think they're ok.
3. God does like these unions, but I believe He doesn't.
4. God does like these unions, and I do too.
Now, as a religious man, I have seen nothing to indicate that God likes LGBT actions, and much to indicate that he does not. Obviously, I could be wrong, it is a possibility that I acknowledge. So, the responses to the 4 options are thus:
1. In doing God's will, I am on the right path and should stay.
2. Directly disobeying God's will, commiting a great sin.
3. Being legitimately ignorant, still a sin but much less so.
4. Doesn't really apply, so...
Except both Options 2 AND 3 reflect ignorance; it is understood that a religiously obedient person would not KNOWINGLY disobey God by condoning relationships one knows God forbids NOR condemning those one knows He permits. My view of homosexuality would be far more comfortable but far less spiritually healthy could I plead genuine ignorance of Gods consistently stated view, but I cannot, and it remains His stated holy position however much discomfort that causes me. Christ is sinless but was crucified for those of us who are not, so I am still far more comfortable than I deserve.
The sole (slight) uncertainty is lesbians, because even after reading the whole text 2-3 times I recall NO biblical mention of lesbians before Pauls, and the first canons included all words certainly or just probably his as Gods, even parts of epistles that explicitly state themselves Pauls wise, learned but PERSONAL opinion (i.e. NOT necessarily the Holy Spirits.) Unless one assumes Paul ALWAYS identified such opinions in ALL his letters, it cannot be certain (and is indeed highly unlikely) the NT identifies all of them. And since Paul had no reason to believe the later Church would declare ALL of even his most trivial correspondence Gods voice, he had no cause to carefully identify all UNINSPIRED words; that was only reasonable in letters consciously intended as instruction (and is by no means always certain even there.) So when part of an epistle seems unclear/uncertain I compare it to the Gospels, Tanakh and most certain parts of other epistles, and above all to Gods necessary qualities and requested guidance of the Holy Spirit (which includes Christian fellowship.) And the other way around, too, because I do not want to end up like Andrea Yates or David Koresh.
A critical note: Anything and EVERYTHING the Torah previously discussed is necessarily covered by the Jerusalem Churchs response to debate over whether the Torah bound Gentile Christians, the core of which Acts 15:28-29 relates as
That covers MALE homosexuality because the Torah does, but not FEMALE homosexuality because the Torah does not. There are other good scriptural arguments (most notably Onan) that “Every Sperm Is Sacred” hit ironically close to Gods view, and lesbians have no sperm, so….
In terms of the transGENDERED it is noteworthy the Torah forbade transvestites, but that is problematic because (say it with me now) sex=/=gender. As Cannoli initially noted, different clothing, hormone treatment or even surgery cannot alter SEX: Nothing can. Even if something could, it is unclear whether that would be sexually IMMORAL, because it requires no sex act. That leaves us only “gender forms” and whether/how much they relate to “sexual ideals.” In terms of crossdressing alone, it is easy: “Male” and “female” clothing is temporally and culturally normative; exclusively male clothing in one time/place may be exclusively female in another, solely as a function of prevailing views, not divine doctrine, so “appropriate” fe/male attire changes as that prevailing view. The increasingly prevalent Western view is that men and women should each wear whatever suits their fancy, so even if sexual morality required clothing reflect sex (which is dubious) the issue would be moot now that there IS no absolutely “sexed” clothing.
Hormone and surgical treatments strike me as similar, again precisely BECAUSE they cannot alter sex and have no bearing on sex acts: We are dealing solely with forms rather than ideals, appearances rather than substance, so nothing identifiably sexual is involved. Again, transgendered people can and are still attracted to either sex, and their sex rather than gender determines whether acting on that attraction is immoral (assuming all other moral requirements are met.) It is surprisingly hard to find anything truly SEXUAL about being transgendered itself, which is highly suggestive. Gender is distinct from sex, and SEXUAL immorality is what Acts forbids.
Even so.
Long posts are of the devil, detailed ones especially so (that IS where he lives after all.)
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