and that should be the end of it, but people like your author think it's their right to force themselves on someone who can't otherwise make rational decisions, or would make different decisions if they weren't so fucked up they could barely stand still. it's about respecting boundaries, and not just taking what you think is yours because "she was asking for it". if you're so desperate to get laid that you literally can't stop yourself, you should probably not be allowed out in public anyway.
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