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Shouldn't the manner of getting hammered factor in ? AgentApple Send a noteboard - 03/03/2015 05:31:48 PM

I recall this party... where I met a girl who kept drinking when she was quite drunk already. Her sober female friend kept bringing her more and more drinks and it was obviously pre-planned when they were both sober.
It was quite obvious what she wanted from me, but I was put off by her drunkedness. When I suggested she slow down she got pissed and left me.
I later saw her going out with some guy.
So, but this logic, was that guy a rapist ? Was I a potential rapist ?
I guess this girl has some mental block stopping her from enjoying a night of care free sex with random guy X.
So if getting hammered in order to lose control, was the plan when she was sober, then it was a sober decision or a drunk decision ?
Or perhaps it is legally impossible to decide to lose control ?

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Drunk Sex random thoughts - 03/03/2015 03:32:30 PM 1295 Views
Shouldn't the manner of getting hammered factor in ? AgentApple - 03/03/2015 05:31:48 PM 839 Views
I think it is sort of like guys getting drunk as an excuse to sleep with ugly girls random thoughts - 03/03/2015 07:00:54 PM 702 Views
It's worth reading the BBC and Telegraph articles your article links to. Legolas - 03/03/2015 06:23:32 PM 963 Views
I am more interested in the trend in general and not this specific law random thoughts - 03/03/2015 07:10:20 PM 783 Views
A lot of those studies are based on adjusting the goalposts for rape Cannoli - 04/03/2015 12:58:06 AM 630 Views
[citation needed] moondog - 04/03/2015 10:13:38 PM 608 Views
As opposed to all those articles you link which argue against your point? Cannoli - 04/03/2015 11:52:34 PM 936 Views
They'd better enforce it equally *NM* ßelals Girl - 03/03/2015 06:28:38 PM 295 Views
Just like hate crime is enforced equally? *NM* random thoughts - 03/03/2015 07:10:45 PM 306 Views
Exactly. I don't have high hopes *NM* ßelals Girl - 03/03/2015 09:10:40 PM 402 Views
it's pretty simple actually: don't take advantage of someone who isn't in their right state of mind moondog - 03/03/2015 11:21:54 PM 560 Views
But they are making it complicated Cannoli - 04/03/2015 12:12:27 AM 615 Views
no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be moondog - 04/03/2015 10:09:59 PM 777 Views
Re: no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be Cannoli - 04/03/2015 11:29:00 PM 643 Views
Yes DREWRULESWOT! - 05/03/2015 09:21:41 PM 802 Views
Why are women having sex the only people immune from bad decisions while intoxicate? random thoughts - 04/03/2015 03:59:31 PM 632 Views
who are you to decide what is rape and what is not? moondog - 04/03/2015 09:55:35 PM 684 Views
That really does set the normal criminal justice system on its head. Legolas - 04/03/2015 11:41:04 PM 744 Views
He isn't giving some far left rant but simply stating the policy of the Obama adminstartion. random thoughts - 09/03/2015 03:14:13 PM 617 Views
The only rational one the in this conversation by all appearances. random thoughts - 05/03/2015 02:39:56 AM 639 Views
So you're guilty until proven innocent?? MonCul - 06/03/2015 01:52:47 AM 881 Views
They get around all that proof stuff by keeping it out of the courts random thoughts - 09/03/2015 04:34:21 PM 598 Views
And that shit is happening ALL THE TIME. Tom - 09/03/2015 04:57:53 PM 687 Views
i think you may be pushing your personal bias on the author. Hieshyn - 06/03/2015 06:42:15 PM 788 Views
When you break the big laws, you don't get freedom or even anarchy, you get the small laws. Cannoli - 04/03/2015 12:46:41 AM 796 Views
wow, what a quaint world you pine for moondog - 04/03/2015 10:23:43 PM 635 Views
Your posts are valuable; each time I read one, I realize I'd forgotten how dumb you are. Cannoli - 04/03/2015 11:44:26 PM 752 Views
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