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Sounds logical. Postsecret Send a noteboard - 10/03/2013 10:30:53 PM

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I never got along with the opposite sex (or even just "cool" people of the same sex ) better than when I didn't care much. I used to get so keyed up about these things, but whenever it didn't matter, I found friends in the oddest places. Easily.

I guess the only advice I have is to relax and not worry about it. In the grand scheme of things, you'll have a ton of successes and a ton of failures, and you really won't remember more than 10% of it. Seriously. Have fun, be a solid person who knows him/herself better than anyone else and try to make the connection. It will work, or it won't. You may not be at the age yet where that can feel natural, but that is genuinely the way to go.


The problem is, as she is not in my class, but the parallel one I wouldn't really see her that often if I just go with the flow.
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So, there's this girl at my Uni. - 10/03/2013 09:46:07 PM 1179 Views
I'm not sure if you sound young, or I'm just old. - 10/03/2013 10:08:35 PM 769 Views
Sounds logical. - 10/03/2013 10:30:53 PM 825 Views
Add her on Facebook - 10/03/2013 11:35:44 PM 777 Views
I'm not sure if I agree with this. - 11/03/2013 10:32:25 PM 795 Views
Fear is a choice, according to the trailer for Will Smith's new movie - 11/03/2013 03:36:29 AM 747 Views
I'll try to help. - 11/03/2013 01:34:55 PM 810 Views
Re: I'll try to help. - 11/03/2013 07:18:45 PM 867 Views
No, it doesn't make sense to me. - 13/03/2013 03:53:10 PM 767 Views
Re: No, it doesn't make sense to me. - 13/03/2013 10:43:59 PM 823 Views
Ah, much better. - 14/03/2013 03:33:50 PM 766 Views
Re: I'll try to help. - 14/03/2013 09:50:26 PM 743 Views
I mostly agree. - 15/03/2013 05:11:19 PM 750 Views
There's a chicken or egg aspect to this, what is fascinating about her? - 13/03/2013 09:10:13 PM 849 Views
Re: There's a chicken or egg aspect to this, what is fascinating about her? - 13/03/2013 10:34:03 PM 861 Views
Well that's not all that abnormal at all - 14/03/2013 02:32:14 AM 871 Views
I... have no idea how to come on to women. - 15/03/2013 01:54:29 AM 994 Views
The chances she'd be interested in you back in a sexual sense are only 1-5% - 15/03/2013 02:49:13 AM 819 Views
just get her talking about herself. chicks dig that *NM* - 15/03/2013 05:07:54 PM 414 Views

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