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That was kind of my take. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM
If you're in an open relationship, that's one thing. It's not for me, but I'm certainly not going to judge you for it.

But if you're going around behind your significant other's back and violating a promise you've made? Oh, yeah. I'mma judge you hard. I've seen way too many cheaters ruin people's lives to do otherwise.

I could not help wondering if his reaction to the reaction (re-reaction?) had something to do with how many polyamorous members wotmania had, but I am not aware of any of them being deceitful about it. All those I know are very up front with their partner(s;) they know they must be, or it cannot work, and care enough about their partner(s) not to put them through that kind of betrayal.
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