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It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM
I wouldn't have a dilemma if I didn't truly love my wife. She's perfect for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But the best moments in life are the passionate ones, the ones that get your heart pumping. Chasing women does this. Any advice? How should I handle this? I haven't gone totally over the line yet, but I fear that's only a matter of time.

This sounds like you want advice on how to do it, not how to stop doing it.
*MySmiley*

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I am on the verge of having an affair - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1831 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1089 Views
Great. Helpful advice - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 972 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 949 Views
I don't know, something helpful - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1017 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 977 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1024 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1006 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1187 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1084 Views
My opinion ... - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1013 Views
That's not really advice - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1020 Views
Why is it obvious? - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1042 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1203 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 960 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 919 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 643 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 512 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 944 Views
role play. *NM* - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 524 Views
You have 4 options - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 944 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 497 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 952 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1161 Views
find another passion - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 920 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1111 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 958 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 500 Views
That was kind of my take. - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1174 Views
I get where you're coming from - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1044 Views
Here is my advice. - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1221 Views
Well said. - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 943 Views
LOL - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 972 Views
Nice choice of words, there - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1011 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1101 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1115 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1015 Views
The thrill of the chase - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 984 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 514 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 561 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 987 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 878 Views

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