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I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM
But instead I will empathise, because I also was afraid of driving. It was so bad that I had to leave my house hours earlier than I needed to, because otherwise I'd scare myself sick and wouldn't be able to go places.

The trick is to just totally immerse yourself in the fear until it goes away. Anxiety and phobia experts call that "flooding." It's what you use in exposure therapy. Essentially, you'll exhaust yourself being scared, and then you will realize that you aren't actually scared any more. Of course, you'll be miserable while you do it, but them's the breaks.


Anxiety disorders are fun, yeah?
"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

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NSSP: Driving Vivien - 13/12/2011 05:15:41 PM 1427 Views
I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM 934 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:58:55 PM 884 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel - 13/12/2011 10:37:47 PM 862 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:50:38 PM 926 Views
Your first instinct was right, trust your instincts. *NM* random thoughts - 14/12/2011 03:16:51 AM 388 Views
I failed my first test. Nate - 13/12/2011 05:49:58 PM 1070 Views
I would love to drive on empty country roads. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:08:35 PM 847 Views
I had to take the driving test 3 time before I passed (posted at the wrong place ) Linda - 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM 923 Views
Congratulations on passing it! Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:18:18 AM 857 Views
13 yrs old. FalonDeathwatchGuard - 13/12/2011 06:02:22 PM 1071 Views
Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:27:59 PM 957 Views
Re: Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others FalonDeathwatchGuard - 13/12/2011 10:37:41 PM 816 Views
Probably just a difference in perspective. Kids sneaking a vehicle for a jor ride is pretty common. everynametaken - 15/12/2011 03:51:30 AM 948 Views
Yeah it is! vroom vroom vroom!! FalonDeathwatchGuard - 15/12/2011 03:26:28 PM 983 Views
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. Macharius - 13/12/2011 06:28:26 PM 1072 Views
Re: I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:29:20 PM 960 Views
It must be harder to overcome that natural fear in NYC. Sareitha Sedai - 13/12/2011 06:44:28 PM 894 Views
Yeah, absolutely. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:32:25 PM 1038 Views
Or drive your drunk sister home from a party. *NM* Aeryn - 14/12/2011 05:27:01 PM 478 Views
Driving IS overrated. Jacob - 13/12/2011 07:01:02 PM 931 Views
Re: Driving IS overrated. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:43:09 PM 742 Views
Isn't it traditional to fail your first test? Or is that just around here? Legolas - 13/12/2011 08:14:01 PM 915 Views
I wouldn't think so Dark Knight - 13/12/2011 08:25:36 PM 807 Views
I'm not in any state. Legolas - 13/12/2011 08:31:30 PM 886 Views
Re: I'm not in any state. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:56:38 PM 830 Views
It's rare to pass on the first try here. (according to driving instructor) Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:44:39 PM 972 Views
I think it depends on where you live Isaac - 13/12/2011 09:11:13 PM 810 Views
Re: I think it depends on where you live Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:34:30 PM 987 Views
I know Texas talked about doing away with it because the failure rate was so low random thoughts - 14/12/2011 03:15:11 AM 862 Views
When I was in New Jersey... rebelaessedai - 13/12/2011 11:30:59 PM 906 Views
Maybe they're the ones who couldn't hack driving in NYC? *NM* Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:21:09 AM 504 Views
I wonder how many people that have been driving for years and years would fail if they had to take Tashmere - 14/12/2011 12:03:55 AM 876 Views
Oh I think most people with years' worth of driving experience be fine. Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:27:09 AM 1071 Views
I was even rather nervous about taking lessons and failed my first ironclad - 14/12/2011 08:30:25 AM 1021 Views
I love driving. Avendesora - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM 941 Views
Re: I love driving. Macharius - 14/12/2011 05:44:57 PM 771 Views
Avendesora - 14/12/2011 06:02:42 PM 1082 Views
I thought it quite clever, actually. Macharius - 14/12/2011 06:54:27 PM 756 Views
Me, too. aerocontrols - 18/12/2011 04:31:29 AM 853 Views
Drive safely! Avendesora - 18/12/2011 04:58:01 AM 932 Views
Re: Me, three. Palatine - 18/12/2011 07:37:55 PM 923 Views
Re: Me, three. aerocontrols - 19/12/2011 06:10:20 AM 803 Views
Welcome home. *NM* Palatine - 19/12/2011 04:41:26 PM 408 Views
Did you ever attend a driving school? *NM* Palatine - 14/12/2011 05:29:33 PM 411 Views
I don't think so. Vivien - 15/12/2011 05:22:09 AM 956 Views
Oh. ironclad - 15/12/2011 08:32:59 AM 1015 Views
Yes, you did. Palatine - 15/12/2011 04:44:48 PM 857 Views
Re: Yes, you did. Vivien - 16/12/2011 12:25:30 AM 860 Views
Re: Yes, you did. Palatine - 16/12/2011 04:42:40 PM 1049 Views
That's not a sign. Aeryn - 14/12/2011 05:29:36 PM 920 Views
I take exception to this. Stephen - 14/12/2011 06:29:40 PM 879 Views
Whoa. rebelaessedai - 15/12/2011 07:21:52 AM 955 Views
Fewer cars on the road. Fewer double-parked cars. *NM* Aeryn - 15/12/2011 06:25:21 PM 350 Views
Also: you have no fear. *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:59:34 PM 468 Views
LOL! You guys are funny. rebelaessedai - 17/12/2011 06:52:22 AM 934 Views
Also, you can tell when there's someone around the corner, because of the headlights. Tim - 19/12/2011 04:18:26 PM 911 Views
Oooh, that's a good point. Vivien - 19/12/2011 05:17:16 PM 1025 Views
It's more pronounced and important in the countryside where there are no streetlights. Tim - 19/12/2011 05:51:25 PM 1026 Views
In the country there are deer aerocontrols - 20/12/2011 05:53:17 AM 918 Views
Oh yeah, forgot about those. We don't have that many left, and only up in the Highlands. *NM* Tim - 20/12/2011 10:18:41 AM 537 Views
Driving tests are far harder in the Netherlands, from what I understand Helene - 14/12/2011 05:34:38 PM 866 Views
For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. Tom - 14/12/2011 06:43:38 PM 741 Views
Re: For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. Macharius - 14/12/2011 07:05:20 PM 811 Views
don't worry i fluffed my practical test up today Yunalesca - 14/12/2011 08:24:56 PM 946 Views
I'm older than you and there's no way I would have willingly gotten behind the wheel at 17. Vivien - 15/12/2011 05:12:29 AM 848 Views
I found driving nervewracking until I got to do it by myself. NZ has a great system, IMO. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 01:48:19 PM 783 Views
It's really not that bad Praziquantel - 16/12/2011 01:03:43 AM 920 Views
Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. Vivien - 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM 919 Views
That last part: just a joke. Vivien - 17/12/2011 06:06:43 PM 974 Views
Re: Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. TaskmasterJack - 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM 970 Views
No. But it is true that my risk aversion coefficient is too high. Vivien - 17/12/2011 06:49:33 PM 770 Views
Isn't learning to drive in NYC sort of like aerocontrols - 18/12/2011 04:21:47 AM 891 Views
Finally! The right word. Vivien - 19/12/2011 02:19:53 AM 804 Views
Re: Finally! The right word. TaskmasterJack - 19/12/2011 02:51:51 AM 741 Views
No problem. aerocontrols - 19/12/2011 06:36:59 AM 1185 Views
Don't worry about it it. I'm sure you'll get over it eventually. Bergioyn - 18/12/2011 09:58:59 AM 900 Views
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