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When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien Send a noteboard - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM
This is always the advice. Dump her, she's crazy. Dump him, he doesn't care about you. It's extremely difficult to have a minor complaint in a relationship. The person writing the rant could also consciously or not make it seem worse than it is, in order not to seem like the bad guy and to justify him or herself.

There is an incredibly thin line between "what are you complaining about? you're an idiot" to "you're an idiot if you stay in this relationship". Really, there's no way to complain to other people about any relationship problems.


me a liar or falsely accusing me one time. And then I would have a hard time forgiving them unless they were actually right or had a valid reason to think they were. Baseless accusations would drive me out the door very quickly.


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My girlfriend is insane - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1411 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 557 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 284 Views
Sounds to me ... - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 723 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 577 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 621 Views
Run. - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 615 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 590 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 658 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 685 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 678 Views
It should work here too - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 655 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 574 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 750 Views
Agreed. - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 576 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 239 Views
A possibility. *NM* - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 239 Views
How old are you both? - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 569 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 257 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 277 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 570 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 542 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 604 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 609 Views
I agree with what Nate said - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 576 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 648 Views
Ogle her constantly. - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 652 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 693 Views
That's right! - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 603 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 524 Views
I did not use the word constant. - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 590 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 530 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 678 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 529 Views
Yes - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 632 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 272 Views
*NM* - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 278 Views
Re: There's no telling if... - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 563 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 562 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1033 Views
You are wise. - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 931 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 546 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 602 Views

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