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Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM
That is a kind response to her behavior. Probably a good idea to give her a chance. But if she doesn't have a good reason for being like this and she refuses to change or get help than I don't see a future for this relationship. Unless postsecret doesn't mind being abused. This is very abusive and manipulative behavior she is displaying. I don't think I could be calm and reasonable about it. That would completely turn me off by the second time it happened.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1411 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 559 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 284 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 725 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 579 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 621 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 617 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 591 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 660 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 686 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 680 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 657 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 576 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 752 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 576 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 239 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 239 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 570 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 257 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 552 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 277 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 572 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 543 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 683 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 605 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 610 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 578 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 649 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 668 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 654 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 694 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 605 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 526 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 592 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 532 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 680 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 531 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 632 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 272 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 278 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 278 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 565 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 565 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 263 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1035 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 932 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 594 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 548 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 542 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 261 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 604 Views
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