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If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM
I would, however, tell her about herself. Say, look, I wouldn't be with you if I didn't care for you, and you need to get on board with that. There are other women around, yes, but I'm clearly not with them and don't plan to be, so get the hell out of my face about it. If you can't, then you don't trust me, and we have a bigger issue we should be discussing.

It's hugely insulting (imo) to be constantly challenged about fidelity and honesty. I think it's important that you express that to her. You don't have to be an ass about it, but you do have to stand up for yourself if you want a strong relationship... and if the relationship won't stand up to that, maybe it isn't the right one for you.
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My girlfriend is insane - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1411 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 558 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 284 Views
Sounds to me ... - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 723 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 577 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 621 Views
Run. - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 615 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 591 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 659 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 686 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 679 Views
It should work here too - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 655 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 575 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 750 Views
Agreed. - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 576 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 239 Views
A possibility. *NM* - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 239 Views
How old are you both? - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 569 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 604 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 609 Views
I agree with what Nate said - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 576 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 648 Views
Ogle her constantly. - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 653 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 693 Views
That's right! - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 604 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 524 Views
I did not use the word constant. - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 591 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 531 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 678 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 529 Views
Yes - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 632 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 272 Views
*NM* - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 278 Views
Re: There's no telling if... - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 563 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 563 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1033 Views
You are wise. - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 932 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 546 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 602 Views

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