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Have you been able to talk to him about the incident? StarrBecca Send a noteboard - 16/06/2011 02:22:24 AM
My husband will frequently smack me on the ass playfully, but last night he did it hard, in anger, and because I challenged him. I didn't realize what it was at first because he does do it playfully, but when I turned around I saw the fire in his eyes, and all because I joked around about not wanting him to add something to the dinner I was cooking.

I told him what he did wasn't okay but he didn't apologize. I think we all know the only place it can go from here. The only thing is he hit me on the ass. It's not like I can go to the ER with a black eye. That's my predicament...that I can't prove anything. He's been more and more controlling lately and I'm not easily controlled so we've been butting heads.

I'm pretty liberal w/ my elbows when someone touches my ass w/o warning.
It is still hitting, and it is still a big deal, right?
Unfortunately , yes it needs to be brought to light. Best wishes.
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It's still hitting, right? - 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM 801 Views
Yes. That's not okay. *NM* - 14/06/2011 10:21:53 PM 155 Views
Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal. - 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM 497 Views
I know they sound like dumb questions. - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM 495 Views
No, it's not dumb. - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM 444 Views
Yes, it is. - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM 437 Views
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Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM* - 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM 216 Views
THIS *NM* - 15/06/2011 08:02:00 AM 155 Views
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Have you been able to talk to him about the incident? - 16/06/2011 02:22:24 AM 400 Views

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