How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything
random thoughts Send a noteboard - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM
Not sure where you live but if it is the US you don't need to prove anything to get a divorce just get one if you feel threatened. If he comes after when you leave get the police involved. If you don't and you just want him arrested you have to ask yourself if you really want the legal expense and to have a husband who has to explain his domestic violence record when he applies for a job. Getting the police and courts involved does nothing for you if you plan on staying.
Personally I think you are over reacting if you end the marriage over it but I don't know what else is going on. O would make sure he is very clear on the idea that is not OK. Maybe start salting his coffee for a while and then claiming it was just a joke.
Personally I think you are over reacting if you end the marriage over it but I don't know what else is going on. O would make sure he is very clear on the idea that is not OK. Maybe start salting his coffee for a while and then claiming it was just a joke.
This message last edited by random thoughts on 15/06/2011 at 01:56:23 PM
It's still hitting, right?
- 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM
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Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal.
- 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM
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He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact.
- 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM
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That all sounds like very good advice.
- 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM
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Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM*
- 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM
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Maybe you and Capt. Industry are the last people who should give me time management advice.
- 15/06/2011 08:47:07 AM
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Ah, still hiding behind this name? Not nice of you to crawl out from under your rock, now go back. *NM*
- 16/06/2011 12:06:53 AM
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How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything
- 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM
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