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No, it's not dumb. Morgawse Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM
I frankly was thinking of leaving him before he hit me. It's why I was looking at getting back to work. I guess I want the justification so I can keep the house. Maybe that should be the least of my worries, but I'm going to be raising three kids and dammit I want the house. I don't feel like I need the justification to leave for me, but I do wish I had something to show people so they wouldn't think I was making it up.
I do have a great family close by. My mom has my oldest son camping this week, but my dad is close by and I have friends I can call. Thanks. :)


I don't know where you are and what the law is, but if you're married and the primary caretaker of your children, won't you have a certain claim on property/money if you divorce, regardless of circumstances? You may be able to keep the house. Either way, talk to your family and friends, and maybe get some legal advice regarding your position if you leave your husband?

Good luck. If anyone needs justification and won't believe you without a black eye, they're not a true friend anyway. Fuck 'em.
Jennifer

Mornings are still not for me.
This message last edited by Morgawse on 14/06/2011 at 11:05:01 PM
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It's still hitting, right? Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM 801 Views
Yes. That's not okay. *NM* Darth_Katie - 14/06/2011 10:21:53 PM 155 Views
Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM 497 Views
I know they sound like dumb questions. Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM 495 Views
No, it's not dumb. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM 444 Views
Yes, it is. Praziquantel - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM 436 Views
He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM 459 Views
That all sounds like very good advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM 459 Views
Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM* Ectheledhel - 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM 216 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 15/06/2011 08:02:00 AM 155 Views
Maybe you and Capt. Industry are the last people who should give me time management advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 08:47:07 AM 410 Views
Ah, still hiding behind this name? Not nice of you to crawl out from under your rock, now go back. *NM* everynametaken - 16/06/2011 12:06:53 AM 144 Views
It's important to protect your boundaries Helene - 15/06/2011 01:35:37 PM 402 Views
How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything random thoughts - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM 444 Views
Is it an event or is it a pattern? Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:12:50 PM 423 Views
Have you been able to talk to him about the incident? StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:22:24 AM 399 Views
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