It is not the fault of the men in the relationships. Note that your response completely fails to distinguish between the fact that "sexually satisfying" for American men and American women tends to mean two completely distinct concepts, and that the consensus is that most American women are unwilling to do anything on behalf of their partner that falls outside that scope.

I will point out that so far, only nossy has really provided anything approximating evidence in defense of American women and in an attempt to refute my points. The rest of you either aren't American (you, Aeryn, Vivien just joined in) or aren't even civil.

I find it mildly amusing that, rather than admit that another culture may have created a situation where the women are sexually repressed (and despite the things that lots of people have tried to say along the lines of "yeah, everyone I know says that too" ) you find it easier to accuse me of being a misogynist, a rapist, ignorant of women, etc. Let me ask you: did you ever, for once, even concede that I just MIGHT be right?