The thing with making big life decisions is that you don't want to end up regretting them. It is, after all, your life. And probably you get to live only once.
Generally, people are more likely to regret the things they didn't do over the things they did do (unless it's something they can't morally support). Staying where you are and being bored, doesn't sound like the best thing for you. It's not making you happy, so continuing down this road is unlikely to bring you happiness. Are there other ways to make your current life less boring to you, without rocking the boat too much? Can you stay there and work less, take up hobbies/sports/causes? Can you find a similar job at another location that suits you better?
Mostly, it's really depending on how risk averse you are. If you are very risk averse, take the first option, even though it will leave you bored.
If you like to take some risks, take the second option. It won't guarantee that you'll end up happier though. The academic world can be a real pain. And debts aren't any fun either. So only do that if it's something you really want to do.
If you are more of a free spirit, take option number 3. From what you've written though, I don't get the impression that you are that free a spirit. Starving also isn't as romantic as it's cracked up to be.
Personally, if I were you, I'd try to switch jobs within your current company, or find a similar job elsewhere and relocate. I'd try and make the situation I'm in better, as opposed to trying to break free completely. But that's because I've noticed that the people around me who tried to break free nearly always ended up bringing their problems with them, because they mistakenly blamed their unhappiness on outward things. They suffer from the "If only this were different" syndrome.
Generally, people are more likely to regret the things they didn't do over the things they did do (unless it's something they can't morally support). Staying where you are and being bored, doesn't sound like the best thing for you. It's not making you happy, so continuing down this road is unlikely to bring you happiness. Are there other ways to make your current life less boring to you, without rocking the boat too much? Can you stay there and work less, take up hobbies/sports/causes? Can you find a similar job at another location that suits you better?
Mostly, it's really depending on how risk averse you are. If you are very risk averse, take the first option, even though it will leave you bored.
If you like to take some risks, take the second option. It won't guarantee that you'll end up happier though. The academic world can be a real pain. And debts aren't any fun either. So only do that if it's something you really want to do.
If you are more of a free spirit, take option number 3. From what you've written though, I don't get the impression that you are that free a spirit. Starving also isn't as romantic as it's cracked up to be.
Personally, if I were you, I'd try to switch jobs within your current company, or find a similar job elsewhere and relocate. I'd try and make the situation I'm in better, as opposed to trying to break free completely. But that's because I've noticed that the people around me who tried to break free nearly always ended up bringing their problems with them, because they mistakenly blamed their unhappiness on outward things. They suffer from the "If only this were different" syndrome.
I Seek Life Advice
26/04/2011 02:52:23 AM
- 1190 Views
It's Sabotage -Go Balls to the wall,Baby! #3 for you, My friend. *NM*
26/04/2011 03:00:14 AM
- 535 Views
Re: If I went balls to the walls I'd run for the Senate in 2012...
26/04/2011 03:22:43 AM
- 595 Views
The common wisdom in Ireland seems to be we are about to do just that to our senate. *NM*
26/04/2011 01:19:22 PM
- 298 Views
Re: I'd love to abolish the US Senate. It's a big, white, Oligarchical nuisance. *NM*
26/04/2011 11:42:44 PM
- 305 Views
I don't understand why NY is not on your radar if you're ambitious.
26/04/2011 06:10:06 AM
- 816 Views
"the ambitious folk" sounds odd to me.
26/04/2011 06:55:40 PM
- 678 Views
Oh, I know.
26/04/2011 07:04:16 PM
- 565 Views
I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right.
26/04/2011 07:37:22 PM
- 534 Views
Re: I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right.
26/04/2011 08:19:38 PM
- 616 Views
Move out west.
26/04/2011 06:21:43 AM
- 689 Views
hey, ca is awesome! also the weather is far, far better than the other 2 pnw states
26/04/2011 06:32:36 AM
- 776 Views
I've visited CA many times, but I only started hating it after I moved to the West Coast
26/04/2011 06:43:24 AM
- 833 Views
oh, ca doesn't make women that way, it's time. i have to interact with them *daily*
26/04/2011 04:38:36 PM
- 742 Views
What's your personality like?
26/04/2011 11:19:59 AM
- 777 Views
Re: That's a great reply - thanks.
26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM
- 809 Views
That's not very nice.
26/04/2011 08:29:11 PM
- 731 Views
Re: Setting:
26/04/2011 08:59:02 PM
- 624 Views
Come to Ireland.
26/04/2011 01:31:55 PM
- 643 Views
Ireland is a great place for writers. *NM*
26/04/2011 04:11:04 PM
- 323 Views
Suicidal, drunk and otherwise self-destructive writers, yes. *NM*
26/04/2011 06:49:55 PM
- 303 Views
The best kind! *NM*
26/04/2011 07:09:06 PM
- 305 Views
$30? I fucking hate you
26/04/2011 03:19:26 PM
- 617 Views
Re: FAR is a beast - but it's so much more satisfying to do it without Becker.
26/04/2011 09:09:11 PM
- 763 Views
take the the risk and go with three *NM*
26/04/2011 05:44:21 PM
- 460 Views
Re: Thanks for the advice. I'm dwelling on'er. *NM*
27/04/2011 12:06:37 AM
- 308 Views
There will likely come a time in your life when you lose some of your choices about taking risk
27/04/2011 05:08:48 PM
- 795 Views
I have to say this has been the MOST enjoyable thread, in a while. whatever happens...
27/04/2011 02:30:05 AM
- 719 Views
There's been a lot of great threads lately!
27/04/2011 07:52:21 PM
- 738 Views