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Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester Send a noteboard - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM
My only question there is if it was so important to him to not go, why didn't he say so instead of going with the cop-out "I'll think about it" line? Would you not be more willing to accept an honest answer you didn't like than for your husband to try and dodge the bullet entirely? I know my wife would, with me.


If they have had rows in the past about going to see her family, he might have tried being honest and explaining why he didn't want to go before and learnt that "I'll think about it" works to at least put off the blazing row they'll have.
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Helene, I want to give you an answer but... - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 958 Views
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I think that's an unfair assumption. - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 847 Views
What he said about his wife's mother - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1014 Views
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For now I have *NM* - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 459 Views
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True enough... - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 939 Views
My opinion is the latter. - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 942 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 918 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 882 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1021 Views
I should have read this first. - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 964 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 931 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1024 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 875 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 917 Views
How did things change? - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 931 Views
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There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 862 Views
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I know. - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1138 Views
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From the information that you have presented... - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1070 Views
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I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 390 Views
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