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But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM
Depends on the wedding. I prefer small and fun.


What's wrong with large and fun?

I am planning one currently, and it's a pain. I already have to "uninvite" people who just assume they get to go.


God that sounds horrible. Having to uninvite people... Why are they assuming they can just show up? How are you letting them know?

My cousin's in Wisconsin - it was family oriented and outside in the summer. Small and fun. It was almost more of a formal picnic feel than a wedding.


Family oriented means that it was mostly family, or that it was for people of all ages?

I really don't want drama. We're talking no more than 25 people, a pretty dress, a couple flowers and a notary public. And I want to take people out to a nice place to eat/drink afterwards - it should work because it will be only people I actually like.


That sounds nice. And not having to entertain tedious people will probably greatly increase your enjoyment of the event as well. Although I get the impression that lots of weddings are barely fun for the people actually getting married.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1277 Views
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 894 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 849 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 632 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 325 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 603 Views
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What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 731 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 650 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 625 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 638 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 308 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 741 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 790 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 818 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 786 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 309 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 313 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 304 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 748 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 758 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 368 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 681 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 710 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 689 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 357 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 744 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 676 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 702 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 699 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 604 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 726 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 748 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 296 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 670 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 723 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 788 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 818 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 742 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 703 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 807 Views
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Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 794 Views
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that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 698 Views
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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 691 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 766 Views
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Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 802 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 751 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 756 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 696 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 694 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 738 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 732 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 631 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 721 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 801 Views
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Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 711 Views
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I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 595 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 828 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 771 Views
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