I don't know why so many people say "skin color." It's irrelevant. It's the cultural identification that matters - and the fact that it is neutral to me, and not a positive like it would be to someone else. I'm not actually racist, you know. A good analogy is dating a Jewish woman (assuming there were fewer of them than Jewish men).

I like how you said that "love life according to a bizarre system of social engineering," I was amused, it's kinda accurate and yes, I admit, weird.