first off, all parents are mental...it just comes with the territory. But I actually agree with most of the article. I have to admit to a bit of hovering at the playground, but it's not out of a fear of my child falling down or anything. It's because I'm afraid if I don't have my kids in my sight whenever we leave the house, some maniac will run off with them. My kids are pretty little though...maybe that will get better as they get older, but probably not. I'll just have to learn to let go.
Also, as far as preventing kids from failing, I agree that is not good for them. They need to learn how to handle failure. But you don't want a kid to feel like a failure all the time either. (And this is from someone about to graduate with a teaching degree) Kids need to experience failure, but they also need to succeed. A good parent or teacher will help them find areas they can succeed in, and teach them how to handle it when they don't.
Also, as far as preventing kids from failing, I agree that is not good for them. They need to learn how to handle failure. But you don't want a kid to feel like a failure all the time either. (And this is from someone about to graduate with a teaching degree) Kids need to experience failure, but they also need to succeed. A good parent or teacher will help them find areas they can succeed in, and teach them how to handle it when they don't.
Child Psychology: Are Todays Parents Mental?
06/01/2011 11:21:53 PM
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As one of today's mental parents...
07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM
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Very interesting article, thanks for posting.
07/01/2011 01:36:51 AM
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Welcome, and I'll pass that along to the person through whom I learned of it.
07/01/2011 02:19:07 AM
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I just began thinking about how my parents raised me as I was reading this.
07/01/2011 02:24:33 AM
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The middle way seems best; 'grats to you and your folks.
07/01/2011 06:35:50 PM
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Thanks Joel. And I agree with you that most of the time, the middle way is best.
07/01/2011 06:52:10 PM
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meh
07/01/2011 02:34:47 PM
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I disagree; even to the extent that's the real problem it's still down to indulgent parents.
07/01/2011 04:52:26 PM
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exterem paretnal involment is being overstated
08/01/2011 03:10:09 AM
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It's extreme indulgence, not involvement.
08/01/2011 03:44:43 AM
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extreme indulgence is a problem but with one exception those were not good examples
08/01/2011 04:47:05 PM
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"Kids need to feel badly sometimes"? What should we do? Dip their fingers in acid?
07/01/2011 03:00:17 PM
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It would work, and definitely put an end to all this touchy-feeliness.
07/01/2011 04:47:16 PM
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I would classify editing the N-word out of Huckleberry Finn to apply to this issue...
07/01/2011 11:26:05 PM
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"Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another.
07/01/2011 11:51:03 PM
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Re: "Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another.
09/01/2011 12:20:47 AM
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If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut.
09/01/2011 01:20:42 AM
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Re: If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut.
09/01/2011 01:28:28 AM
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Sadly so.
09/01/2011 01:32:23 AM
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Re: Sadly so.
09/01/2011 01:41:39 AM
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Hadn't seen that, no.
09/01/2011 11:21:20 PM
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Re: Hadn't seen that, no.
10/01/2011 04:59:53 PM
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Does M$ have U2 and Steves permission to use their names in that patent application?
10/01/2011 07:46:54 PM
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Re: Does M$ have U2 and Steves permission to use their names in that patent application?
10/01/2011 09:54:50 PM
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well your reply shows us what we end up with if we have over indulgent parnets
10/01/2011 04:08:38 PM
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It's a good article, but contains a bit of oversimplification.
11/01/2011 09:36:35 PM
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Actually, I tend to agree, 'cos I somewhat agree with rt it diagnoses symptoms better than problems
11/01/2011 11:53:48 PM
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