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As one of today's mental parents... aria Send a noteboard - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM
first off, all parents are mental...it just comes with the territory. But I actually agree with most of the article. I have to admit to a bit of hovering at the playground, but it's not out of a fear of my child falling down or anything. It's because I'm afraid if I don't have my kids in my sight whenever we leave the house, some maniac will run off with them. My kids are pretty little though...maybe that will get better as they get older, but probably not. I'll just have to learn to let go.

Also, as far as preventing kids from failing, I agree that is not good for them. They need to learn how to handle failure. But you don't want a kid to feel like a failure all the time either. (And this is from someone about to graduate with a teaching degree) Kids need to experience failure, but they also need to succeed. A good parent or teacher will help them find areas they can succeed in, and teach them how to handle it when they don't.
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I find this interesting on two levels: - 06/01/2011 11:33:31 PM 642 Views
As one of today's mental parents... - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM 781 Views
Agreed. - 07/01/2011 12:34:18 AM 717 Views
Re: Agreed. - 07/01/2011 03:04:53 PM 668 Views
Very interesting article, thanks for posting. - 07/01/2011 01:36:51 AM 723 Views
Not surprising. - 07/01/2011 01:52:57 PM 645 Views
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Yeah, Macharius pretty well covered it. - 07/01/2011 06:34:13 PM 636 Views
meh - 07/01/2011 02:34:47 PM 637 Views
I disagree; even to the extent that's the real problem it's still down to indulgent parents. - 07/01/2011 04:52:26 PM 695 Views
exterem paretnal involment is being overstated - 08/01/2011 03:10:09 AM 631 Views
It's extreme indulgence, not involvement. - 08/01/2011 03:44:43 AM 654 Views
"Kids need to feel badly sometimes"? What should we do? Dip their fingers in acid? - 07/01/2011 03:00:17 PM 561 Views
This. - 07/01/2011 06:10:30 PM 502 Views
I would classify editing the N-word out of Huckleberry Finn to apply to this issue... - 07/01/2011 11:26:05 PM 596 Views
"Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 07/01/2011 11:51:03 PM 523 Views
Re: "Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 09/01/2011 12:20:47 AM 625 Views
If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:20:42 AM 595 Views
Re: If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:28:28 AM 533 Views
Sadly so. - 09/01/2011 01:32:23 AM 535 Views
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Hadn't seen that, no. - 09/01/2011 11:21:20 PM 630 Views
Re: Hadn't seen that, no. - 10/01/2011 04:59:53 PM 660 Views
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well your reply shows us what we end up with if we have over indulgent parnets - 10/01/2011 04:08:38 PM 581 Views
It's a good article, but contains a bit of oversimplification. - 11/01/2011 09:36:35 PM 573 Views
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