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Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM
I know I haven't posted her in a while, but I just kinda had to get this off my chest.

My husband has to travel to another state twice a year for work. He's gone for typically 3 weeks each time. He came home from once such trip on Friday. Something was different. When confronted, he admitted to cheating on me. 12 years of marriage down the drain. He says he loves me and that he made a mistake, blah blah blah...
Wants to know if I'll forgive him. That he wants to be with me. Oh and we do have 2 kids. This just really sucks. Here I thought we were at a good place in our marriage. I guess he disagreed.


...without knowing anything more about you, your husband and your marriage:
If that happened just once and he is sorry and regretful and everything else is peachy, see if you can try to forgive him, even though what he did was wrong and hurtful. This does not have to be the end, if there is still so much love
Good luck.


Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.
I'm still me.
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that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 492 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 614 Views
Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:20:24 PM 454 Views
Re: Good for you lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:30:58 PM 586 Views
Re: Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:51:14 PM 502 Views
I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 449 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 579 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 656 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 449 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 474 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 491 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 460 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 464 Views
Re: Or Macharius - 05/10/2010 05:56:19 PM 404 Views
It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 445 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 450 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 421 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 426 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 468 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 683 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 421 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 420 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 414 Views
Get yourself tested for STDs ßelals Girl - 06/10/2010 12:43:18 AM 472 Views
*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 382 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 444 Views
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