But then, I'm speaking from a secure long term relationship, if 5.5 years can be called long term yet. It still feels new at times.
What I learned about love is that when it's right, there's not a lot of hassle. It just flows naturally. I don't buy into the drama, where people hold on to toxic relationships under the guise of "but I love him/her!" It's not worth it, and they're keeping themselves from finding someone worth while.
One of the things I remember when I was still dating was that I realized that I needed to be the kind of person that someone I want would want. Not as in, pretend to be someone I'm not, but as in, growing as a person. I had a lot of growing to do. Still do, to be honest.
What I learned about love is that when it's right, there's not a lot of hassle. It just flows naturally. I don't buy into the drama, where people hold on to toxic relationships under the guise of "but I love him/her!" It's not worth it, and they're keeping themselves from finding someone worth while.
One of the things I remember when I was still dating was that I realized that I needed to be the kind of person that someone I want would want. Not as in, pretend to be someone I'm not, but as in, growing as a person. I had a lot of growing to do. Still do, to be honest.
Hollywood definitely contributes to a lot of that and it's total bollocks. TOTAL. Love...is. You can't force it, and if you're unhappy it's not love (I don't mean you should be happy all the time
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Still Empress of the Poofy Purple Pillow Pile Palace!!
Continued Love of my Aussie <3
Continued Love of my Aussie <3
Let's talk about love.
- 24/08/2010 04:50:54 PM
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I'm pragmatic about love
- 24/08/2010 07:13:30 PM
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Mmmmm.
- 25/08/2010 12:58:57 AM
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I feel for you man but the immature kid in me was sniggering about "opening her up" 
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- 24/08/2010 09:35:48 PM
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- 24/08/2010 09:35:48 PM
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