So, the other day, at a semi-formal event representing my boss, an older gentleman approached me and started making small talk. After a bit, he commented on how young I seemed, I couldn't be older than 31. I chuckled and told him that my 24th Birthday is next week, and that killed the conversation. He was embarrassed that his guess was 7 years off, and I was a bit offended that anyone would think I'm in my thirties just yet.
1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?
I would be surprised, since the usual guess is that I'm about 24-25 years old still. Being up to a dozen years off my age can be annoying when I don't want to be considered near the same age as my students.
Hmmmm... I guess that would be just as annoying... if people thought I was much younger than I am. Here's hoping I stay looking in my thirties for the next twenty or thirty years.
Stay away from smoking and inherit high cheekbones and you might be able to do that
2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?
Perhaps. Then again, I student taught at 24 and was confused for a HS junior.
That burns... I've been confused for a professor at the school, and when I take my little sibs to school, people assume I'm their father.
It was even worse when I was teaching in FL. I taught middle school for ESOL students and I was walking over to another teacher's room before the gates were opened and another teacher called out. She thought I was a student who had snuck in In fairness, there were some court-ordered students who were 16-17 that looked like they were older than that, but it was a bit amusing (I want to say it was on a casual Friday, as I usually would wear khakis and button-downs then)
3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?
Depending on the situation, I might politely correct them, or just casually mention that 1/3 of my hair is graying now
Humor.
If I didn't have it, I would have been in prison now for second-degree
4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?
While I like to be thought of as more "mature" than I really am, it's not all that important. After all, cougars can be a compliment...I suppose
LOL... Depends on how useful/beautiful/kind they are.
Indeed, but then again, I can also date women 10-15 years younger than me and it wouldn't look so bad as well
5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?
You probably should just get around to getting older, you know
Nay! I shan't age another minute! *holds breath*
Oh, going to be like the main character in The Tin Drum?
Illusions fall like the husk of a fruit, one after another, and the fruit is experience. - Narrator, Sylvie
Je suis méchant.
Je suis méchant.
Age
09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM
- 749 Views
Re: Age
09/08/2010 09:32:21 PM
- 673 Views
In the US you're supposed to graduate college at 22.
10/08/2010 06:19:43 AM
- 560 Views
Or 21, surely, assuming one was born after May? *NM*
10/08/2010 08:08:25 AM
- 218 Views
If they turn 22 later that year, I'm counting them as 22. Just a little rounding. *NM*
11/08/2010 01:26:00 AM
- 289 Views
I've always claimed every year I could when teaching
09/08/2010 09:51:45 PM
- 607 Views
I try to hold off on aging... it's odd to be still in my BA while 24 years old.
10/08/2010 12:05:32 AM
- 645 Views
Especially since I had already earned my MA by 23
10/08/2010 01:29:06 AM
- 576 Views
Pretty sure that's the norm. *NM*
10/08/2010 03:21:34 AM
- 244 Views
Not really, not in my field anyways
10/08/2010 04:06:22 AM
- 525 Views
That hasn't been my experience. There are many 1 year MA programs now.
10/08/2010 08:09:13 AM
- 467 Views
Re: Age
10/08/2010 04:29:40 AM
- 570 Views
Re: Age
10/08/2010 06:32:53 AM
- 440 Views
11/08/2010 12:21:31 AM
- 540 Views
Surely, I would. *NM*
11/08/2010 12:47:21 AM
- 279 Views
I was only telling the truth! *NM*
11/08/2010 11:48:47 PM
- 264 Views
The truth shall set you free... into the cold arms of death. *NM*
12/08/2010 12:00:58 AM
- 256 Views
What do you want for your birthday?
10/08/2010 04:35:47 AM
- 501 Views
I would assume he's joking.
10/08/2010 06:16:13 AM
- 566 Views