1. How do you flirt?
I only flirt with my fiance. I give him a lot of compliments. I say sweet thing to him. I touch him.
Otherwise, I don't. At least, not consciously. I do make jokes and smile, but flirting requires (at least, in my book) an ulterior motive of actually showing a romantic of sexual interest in the other person, which I try to avoid.
I agree.
2. Are you good at flirting?
I think I'm not good at flirting without giving the impression that I'm actually interested.
*nods* I'm interested in this person, that's the ulterior motive for this survey.
3. What are your best flirting tips?
Don't talk about yourself too much, keep the topic light, smile, but mostly also just be yourself.
Those are good ideas, thank you. I tend to talk too much about myself when I'm nervous.
4. Can you know if someone likes you in "that" way?
Being in an age group where all the good looking guys are taken (including my fiance, but then by me), I try to avoid noticing such things. I don't care to fall in love with someone else. And I can't respect a guy in a committed relationship who'd fall for me.
I understand.
5. How can you know if it's love and not just a crush?
Time. Love takes time. Crushes can turn into love.
Makes sense.
6. Are you brave when it comes to these things?
I've never had an issue finding relationships. Nor have I had an issue breaking up, most of the time. I am not afraid to get hurt, as getting hurt is part of life. It will happen, so why not live in the way that gives the most chance for happiness?
True.
7. How would you handle a crush/ or if in love with someone who is already a friend not to destroy the friendship?
The one time I fell in love with a friend, it did end up destroying the friendship. Another time when a friend fell in love with me, we ended up still being great friends. It really depends on the situation and mutual expectations. These things happen. Let the chips fall where they may.
*nods*
8. Do you think flirting is a lot different if the person of your "crush" is of the same sex?
Yes, in the sense that I don't know how to act toward women in a romantic/flirty way. It's very easy when it comes to men. But essentially, it's not different, as in that all people like compliments and someone showing an interest in them.
That's true.
9. Can you be friends with someone after you have admitted having a crush on them and they don't feel the same?
Yes, it's possible. But it depends on the circumstances and the other person.
*nods* Didn't notice this was almost the same question as #7 until now.
Formerly known as Jojjo.
Wise People of Read and Find Out, questions about flirting, love, and more.
- 06/08/2010 08:25:05 AM
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Hmmm... not sure if I should reply
- 06/08/2010 10:57:10 AM
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Re: Hmmm... not sure if I should reply
- 06/08/2010 11:22:00 AM
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Ok, so you've got a crush on a girl?
- 06/08/2010 12:15:59 PM
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Yep.
- 06/08/2010 12:19:05 PM
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Well on this I should never be considered wise...
- 06/08/2010 03:20:48 PM
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- 06/08/2010 04:58:19 PM
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- 07/08/2010 09:26:02 AM
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I'm kind of known as a flirt. 
- 06/08/2010 07:17:18 PM
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- 06/08/2010 07:17:18 PM
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Is that bad?
- 07/08/2010 09:32:31 AM
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When people stop thinking you can be serious, and only see the flirt... it can be. 
- 07/08/2010 06:32:07 PM
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Re: When people stop thinking you can be serious, and only see the flirt... it can be.
- 07/08/2010 07:57:21 PM
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Re: Wise People of Read and Find Out, questions about flirting, love, and more.
- 07/08/2010 04:42:01 AM
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- 07/08/2010 09:36:03 AM
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There's a whole 'underground' community on the web aboout seduction and pick-up you know
- 17/08/2010 04:21:08 AM
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