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It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM
Now, I definitely don't think it's an excuse for cheating, but science points to humans not being naturally monogamous, which leads me to think that most guys likely have sexual thoughts about women who aren't their partners.

Of course "everyone" is, you know, a little ridiculous, if for no other reason than the fact that a fair number of men are asexual. But I feel fairly confident in asserting that males who don't have sexual thoughts about other women are, well, in a fairly small minority.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1454 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1013 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 440 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 975 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1055 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 546 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 478 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 498 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1039 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 915 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 438 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 801 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 956 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1170 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 894 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1082 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 970 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 818 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 978 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1076 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1019 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 936 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 961 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1048 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 967 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1228 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 922 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 992 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 872 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 840 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 713 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 426 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 346 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 437 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1001 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 445 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 786 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 487 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 870 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 893 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 869 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1098 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1044 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 785 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 807 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 885 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 352 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 898 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1010 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 943 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 970 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 880 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 930 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 965 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 519 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 948 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 863 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 964 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 811 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 934 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 876 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1016 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 779 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 368 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1130 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 596 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1077 Views
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