At one point in Breaking Dawn, I was thinking Jacob and Leah would end up together - both had been hurting themselves for months or years moping over someone they knew they couldn't have (thanks to that other person being in True Love with someone else), and they seemed to be getting closer fast. But no, that would've been too... prosaic for Meyer. Not True Love enough, or something. So she does that insane thing with Jacob.

And by the end of the series, pretty much everyone has been partnered off somehow, and they all have fantastic True Love relationships with the person of their dreams, etc. I don't mind books that glorify love - Rowling does it a lot, though she has a broader view of love - but Meyer's fairy-tale kind is annoying.

You're also right about those two powerful men both falling in love with the average girl that Bella is... it does read more like a fantasy, some romantic girly fantasy of having two men fight over you, with the men all "perfect" and the girl just perfectly ordinary. But it's true that the way she doesn't know what she wants to do with her life - in itself a normal enough thing for someone in the final year of high school - and then decides to let her whole life turn around that man she's crazy in love with... yeah, ick. I still maintain it's not truly anti-feminist, though, because Meyer does the same thing with her male characters, and among the supposedly perfect Cullens, more often than not the women take the lead.