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NYC really is a concrete 'jungle' Praziquantel Send a noteboard - 15/09/2011 09:41:59 PM
People there just don't seem to know how to interact with others (I've never been there, but that is the very strong impression I get from television and movies, and from anecdotal statements like yours).

New Yorkers need to get over their issues with strangers. To me it is perfectly normal to say hi to someone you don't know, and have never seen before. I talk to strangers on the bus all the time, and usually it causes no problems. It is called being a friendly person, and seems to be something NYC lacks. There is something wrong IMO in the social makeup of residents of that city, some self-absorbed scared of others shell that New Yorkers have put themselves into.

To me, it is just unnatural.


Among the millions, in NYC, you are just some guy and nothing makes you more deserving of a 'hello' or 'how do you do?' than the next person (of which there are too many to count).

Besides, it is hardly the only place with this type of mindset. If you really want to see people who couldn't care less about your existence on this planet, take a walk down the major thoroughfare of your choice in London or Paris.
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does seeing someone reading a book you like justify striking up a conversation Foxhead - 10/09/2011 08:21:28 PM 1292 Views
I keep wanting to, but I never do Camilla - 10/09/2011 11:07:07 PM 1050 Views
take the plunge! Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:07:45 AM 1232 Views
Only if you fancy them and are using it as an excuse to chat them up. *NM* Tim - 10/09/2011 11:44:07 PM 420 Views
with ulterior motives? Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:10:46 AM 890 Views
I wouldn't interuppt someone while they are reading. LadyLorraine - 11/09/2011 03:16:50 AM 1155 Views
that's worse surely! Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:13:15 AM 1068 Views
not to me. LadyLorraine - 11/09/2011 05:59:19 PM 947 Views
it is pretty easy tell if they would rather just be reading random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:13:30 PM 994 Views
I guess my thing is I just hate to be interrupted and don't want to do it to someone else LadyLorraine - 12/09/2011 04:28:30 PM 1046 Views
you get that immersed even in public area? random thoughts - 12/09/2011 06:52:54 PM 896 Views
Usually. If it's not a situation where I CAN, I just won't read. LadyLorraine - 12/09/2011 07:23:48 PM 1092 Views
Did you not like the other trilogy? Gher - 11/09/2011 03:36:18 AM 1169 Views
erm, not as much Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:19:03 AM 983 Views
I used to be timid. Now I don't care and will happily interrupt. Ghavrel - 11/09/2011 07:42:35 AM 1055 Views
Yeah, exactly Praziquantel - 11/09/2011 07:53:48 AM 1064 Views
it's the "i will probably never see again" i can't get my head around Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:21:45 AM 964 Views
I guess that depends on how you go about it random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:16:38 PM 872 Views
That's a nice way of saying "I'm antisociably shy." Ghavrel - 13/09/2011 09:43:17 AM 1013 Views
no i meant the opposite Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:20:48 PM 925 Views
Answers to questions asked. Palatine - 11/09/2011 03:34:32 PM 990 Views
i asked because i wondered how many people would welcome it or view it as an intrusion Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:25:32 PM 982 Views
I love talking to perfect strangers imlad - 15/09/2011 05:34:27 PM 1330 Views
I have just gone up to someone and said "good choice in book" Fox and Ravens - 11/09/2011 04:49:21 PM 974 Views
did he reply or did you back away...staring and pointing at the book? Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:27:45 PM 1048 Views
I can't resist that. I will always say something. Many people have done the same with me Tashmere - 11/09/2011 06:10:36 PM 1085 Views
are a small town girl? Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:30:46 PM 1081 Views
How do you even figure out what they're reading? Vivien - 12/09/2011 05:44:30 AM 1037 Views
NYC is wierd *NM* random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:17:35 PM 398 Views
i look at the cover, i very rarely see someone reading a book bent back on itself *NM* Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:31:52 PM 555 Views
I can usually tell what people are reading with a glance. rebelaessedai - 15/09/2011 01:49:06 AM 1247 Views
Thats why I am glad I don't live in NYC imlad - 15/09/2011 05:41:47 PM 1156 Views
NYC really is a concrete 'jungle' Praziquantel - 15/09/2011 09:41:59 PM 1057 Views
Thats just irritating when it happens to me...I never would do that to another human. *NM* Ryan - 12/09/2011 08:54:06 AM 468 Views
Hmm, what about a Cocker Spaniel? *NM* Kotagg - 13/09/2011 02:39:08 AM 460 Views
Re: No. RomaVenkat - 12/09/2011 02:51:40 PM 1031 Views
I stirke up conversation with strangers all the time random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:12:09 PM 981 Views
exactly! imlad - 15/09/2011 05:46:57 PM 1113 Views
It depends on the situation DomA - 12/09/2011 07:26:02 PM 971 Views
i love the farseer books too! and yeah a little weird, but not that weird *NM* temeraire - 13/09/2011 10:37:53 PM 371 Views
I think so, but it isn't always appreciated. Vodalus - 15/09/2011 03:20:07 AM 1094 Views
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