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it's the "i will probably never see again" i can't get my head around Foxhead Send a noteboard - 11/09/2011 10:21:45 AM
It's good for people to be brought out of their shells, and it's good for me to work on my social skills. Worst that happens is I get blown off as a nice-but-slightly-overbearing stranger by someone I will probably never see again.

Realizing that most people really don't think twice about you is quite liberating, honestly.


i know i'll never see these people again but it still bothers me about what they might think about me even though i'll definitely be out of their minds probably by the end of the day

i have an issue with going out of my way to conform to a social norm

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does seeing someone reading a book you like justify striking up a conversation Foxhead - 10/09/2011 08:21:28 PM 1294 Views
I keep wanting to, but I never do Camilla - 10/09/2011 11:07:07 PM 1052 Views
take the plunge! Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:07:45 AM 1233 Views
Only if you fancy them and are using it as an excuse to chat them up. *NM* Tim - 10/09/2011 11:44:07 PM 420 Views
with ulterior motives? Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:10:46 AM 891 Views
I wouldn't interuppt someone while they are reading. LadyLorraine - 11/09/2011 03:16:50 AM 1156 Views
that's worse surely! Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:13:15 AM 1069 Views
not to me. LadyLorraine - 11/09/2011 05:59:19 PM 949 Views
it is pretty easy tell if they would rather just be reading random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:13:30 PM 995 Views
I guess my thing is I just hate to be interrupted and don't want to do it to someone else LadyLorraine - 12/09/2011 04:28:30 PM 1048 Views
you get that immersed even in public area? random thoughts - 12/09/2011 06:52:54 PM 897 Views
Usually. If it's not a situation where I CAN, I just won't read. LadyLorraine - 12/09/2011 07:23:48 PM 1094 Views
Did you not like the other trilogy? Gher - 11/09/2011 03:36:18 AM 1171 Views
erm, not as much Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:19:03 AM 984 Views
I used to be timid. Now I don't care and will happily interrupt. Ghavrel - 11/09/2011 07:42:35 AM 1056 Views
Yeah, exactly Praziquantel - 11/09/2011 07:53:48 AM 1064 Views
it's the "i will probably never see again" i can't get my head around Foxhead - 11/09/2011 10:21:45 AM 966 Views
I guess that depends on how you go about it random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:16:38 PM 873 Views
That's a nice way of saying "I'm antisociably shy." Ghavrel - 13/09/2011 09:43:17 AM 1015 Views
no i meant the opposite Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:20:48 PM 927 Views
Answers to questions asked. Palatine - 11/09/2011 03:34:32 PM 990 Views
i asked because i wondered how many people would welcome it or view it as an intrusion Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:25:32 PM 982 Views
I love talking to perfect strangers imlad - 15/09/2011 05:34:27 PM 1330 Views
I have just gone up to someone and said "good choice in book" Fox and Ravens - 11/09/2011 04:49:21 PM 974 Views
did he reply or did you back away...staring and pointing at the book? Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:27:45 PM 1048 Views
I can't resist that. I will always say something. Many people have done the same with me Tashmere - 11/09/2011 06:10:36 PM 1086 Views
are a small town girl? Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:30:46 PM 1083 Views
How do you even figure out what they're reading? Vivien - 12/09/2011 05:44:30 AM 1037 Views
NYC is wierd *NM* random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:17:35 PM 398 Views
i look at the cover, i very rarely see someone reading a book bent back on itself *NM* Foxhead - 13/09/2011 02:31:52 PM 555 Views
I can usually tell what people are reading with a glance. rebelaessedai - 15/09/2011 01:49:06 AM 1249 Views
Thats why I am glad I don't live in NYC imlad - 15/09/2011 05:41:47 PM 1156 Views
NYC really is a concrete 'jungle' Praziquantel - 15/09/2011 09:41:59 PM 1058 Views
Thats just irritating when it happens to me...I never would do that to another human. *NM* Ryan - 12/09/2011 08:54:06 AM 468 Views
Hmm, what about a Cocker Spaniel? *NM* Kotagg - 13/09/2011 02:39:08 AM 460 Views
Re: No. RomaVenkat - 12/09/2011 02:51:40 PM 1032 Views
I stirke up conversation with strangers all the time random thoughts - 12/09/2011 03:12:09 PM 983 Views
exactly! imlad - 15/09/2011 05:46:57 PM 1113 Views
It depends on the situation DomA - 12/09/2011 07:26:02 PM 972 Views
i love the farseer books too! and yeah a little weird, but not that weird *NM* temeraire - 13/09/2011 10:37:53 PM 371 Views
I think so, but it isn't always appreciated. Vodalus - 15/09/2011 03:20:07 AM 1096 Views
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