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Are you INSANE? Do you know NOTHING about what prostitution entails? Cannoli Send a noteboard - 21/07/2011 01:09:26 AM

I didn't say i wanted him to die, I don't, but ol' George hasn't killed anyone off in awhile and it would be a return to form. Actually, Robb died after having PoV's in 2 books (or is it 3?) Martin kills PoV characters to make the suspense more palpable, to up the ante so you know that nobody is safe.
You know the PoV characters are safe, if they make it to a second book. Robb never had a PoV. Everything he did was seen through Catelyn's eyes. How's death keeping her down these days?


Haha! :) So instead we get Aegon VI: No Dragons This Time.
You DO know that traditionally heroes KILL dragons, right? Or did you think Tolkien was a grim and gritty writer for killing off the hero Smaug?

Not sure that her family has anything to do with this, but I'm pretty sure when you were a kid you didn't say "Hooray, Spider-Man, WOOT that you got bit by just the right spider to wield a power outside your ability to rationalize, and win you that MJ poon."
The family has everything to do with it - it's why she can deal with the dragons safely and Quentyn Martell gets the marshmallow treatment.

Not even remotely expecting her to work this one out on her back, she's wearing bloody rags standing next to dragon. I don't think she's gonna have to bang anybody to get them to listen.
True enough.

But unlike Robert, Daenerys has lost track of time due to her hectic schedule of trying to bring peace, prosperity, and freedom to a nation, instead of appointing someone better to do it for her.
At least Robert had the sense to realize that he was incompetent. And from your comment about "appointing someone to do it better" I take it you missed the end of Barristan's plotline, where we see that her followers ARE having to rule in her stead. The difference being she simply walked off, and didn't bother to make any arrangements for her absence. Yay, responsibility! And she did not lose time due to any of those things you attribute! She lost time because she was living like a feral animal and menstruating all over the place.


You can never save everyone, and freedom and justice have it's price. This is what would have happened if American's had wanted to go back to England to free themselves from dynastic tyrrany.
Huh? If we did that, we'd be stupid. Why would anyone go to England from America to free himself from dynastic tyranny?

Nobody ever said Daenerys was perfect, but her not wanting to hear the truth that the wingman who helped her entire family slide into near extinction is not quite the same as Joffrey not wanting to see what his people wanted or what was best for the Realm. Daenerys is biased and idealistic, but Joffrey was sadistic and deranged. And have I mentioned that nobody seems to have bothered to teach Daenerys anything about political intrigue, yet she has been very successful making executive decisions that render auspicious outcomes.
Tell that to Astapor. She left a hippy idealistic dream-team in charge and a butcher with even less political experience and training than Dany took over in no time flat. And if those who will not learn from the past are doomed to repeat, you are suggesting that Daenerys is doomed to repeat her father's mistake. Demanding the deaths of two men simply for the crime of being related and engaged to the girl his son lusted after is exactly why Aerys deserved what he got. But Daenerys would rather cover her ears and hide away in her little girl fantasy world where she & her family are the good guys and everyone who defends himself from their depredations is evil and a "dog."
She may have lost her tentative hold on Meereen the minute they thought she was dead, but she held Meereen with words and wits and self-sacrifice. (and a few swords, aye.)
That doesn't make her right.


Brienne has a code of ethics that rivals Ned Stark's. She swore to find Ned Stark's daughter and even frightened, alone, and lost she swears never to quit looking.
So what. Mere words, and words, as they say, are wind. Was she looking for Sansa in Jaime's camp at Pennytree? Ooops. She DID quit, or at least take a detour.

I don't know that she would lure Jaime to anything. She regards Jaime with a mixture of admiration and disapproval anyway, but, unlike many people in our story who refuse to believe that people change, Brienne accepts that Jaime is not the same man he was 20 years ago, and that he may possibly deserve the chance to prove himself.
Yes, people can change and reform themselves. Does being slightly more polite now that he can't fight back if someone gets pissed off at his snotty behavior erase three decades of degenerate self-indulgence? Even if he IS sincerely reformed and trying to do good, why is he supporting a usurper to the Iron Throne, and threatening to murder infants to induce their fathers to surrender their own castles to his contemptible and avaricious uncle? Why is he assisting with the degradation of men he knows to be honorable, and the exaltation of contemptible venal turncoats? Why does he get a free pass, now that the war is conveniently over and his side is in charge and there is no one who has the will and the power to hold him accountable? He is not in the clear until he faces justice or makes restitution. Jaime has done neither and shows no inclination to do so.


WOAH.

Tyrion certainly is a spurned and spoiled second son who still lives better than most whole men.

He does treat women shamefully. Everybody does. But not until after Shae.
Wait, indulging in his lust at the expense of their dignity and self-esteem and exploiting their poverty to get some is NOT treating them shamefully?! What the hell kind of world do you live in where hiring a prostitute is NOT treating her shamefully! The difference is that after Shae he discarded his pretense of consideration and kindness, which was really nothing more than a sop to his vanity and an attempt to maintain the illusion that he was desirable.

He always treated whores with a lot more respect and dignity than any other men.
And it was SOOO kind of Roose Bolton to convey Jaime's greetings when he stabbed Robb through the heart! That made it much nicer, didn't it? Being polite to a woman you are raping while paying some sleazebag for the right to do so, is like rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic and priding yourself for your efforts to keep the ship afloat!

He wants a lady love, not a whore, but believes he will never have one, so he settles for the arms and embraces of the paid. However, he still treats them like ladies. (Men are often much more rude to Ladies than Tyrion is to whores)

:banghead: Yes, a stranger's penis forced into you is SOOO much better than a rude word any day!
In the beginning he tried to treat Shae like he was a Lannister and she was a whore, but she treated him as an equal, and he came to see her as such. He loved her, protected her, and provided for her no differently than Ned Stark did for Lady Catelyn, and she did not love him in the early years of their marriage.
She flattered him because he was far more financially well-off than any other john she could aspire to! Her pretense of affection and love were an ACT to manipulate him and keep the gravy train rolling! And he knew it too, but let himself be deceived by the flattery and taken in by the illusion she wove to keep getting his money! There was NOTHING of respect or courtesy or love in their relationship. He paid her for sexual gratification and the illusion of affection. She performed for him and did what he wanted because it was a better deal than she could get anywhere else. And before you spew any of that victimless crime garbage, recall that the laws of supply and demand affect poon as well. Every woman who sells herself for coin or comfort makes it that much more difficult for decent women to demand respect in a sexual relationship.

Tyrion did the same for Tysha, until his beloved brother, who never lied to him, told him she was a whore. And Tyrion, with low self-esteem, believed that no normal woman would want to wed and bed him. Heartbroken, he learned the wrong lesson. Tywin Lannister wanted to keep his son from the lowborn and whores alike, but Tyrion learned that the only love he would ever had would cost him gold.
Well, so much for his intelligence. That's his fault, that he came to believe such exploitation was acceptable. Yes, what Tywin did was unjustifiable, but so was Tyrion's part. He knew he had no business marrying Tysha, but he did it anyway, knowing what he was exposing her to, even if he had no idea of the specifics. And he was hardly being a good husband - he treated her more like a kept mistress than a marital partner! But as far as the marriage thing goes, Tyrion, like Cersei or Sansa or Catelyn or Robb Stark or any other high born child, knows growing up that his hand in marriage is not his to give away. In exchange for the wealth and comforts that being part of a noble family entails (and by comforts, I mean things that can be the difference between death by exposure, disease, starvation or assault, not a bigger TV screen or faster internet connection), they have to be ready to marry the person their house leadership determines will best serve the interests of that family. Did he want a loving marriage? So do most nobles in Westeros. How seldom are their wishes granted? How many young boys with dreams of a beautiful lady wife have to settle for some crusty-faced porker or a vapid socialite who can't hold a conversation about anything more serious than court fashions & scandals? What about Tyrion's own cousin who was made to marry an infant, with more than a dozen of the horniest years of his life to pass in unfulfilled abstinence while he waits for his lady to begin menstruating. And then, when he finally gets to have sex, in his late 20s, it will be with a 12 or 13 year old child. Life sucks for EVERYONE and Tyrion had no business marrying a woman of such low birth on such short notice. Yes, he was thirteen. Yes, boys that age are not renowned for their wise decisions. But a year or two after that age, Robb Stark was leading an army to war against an powerful foe, with the survival of his entire family riding on his ability to do it better than a man renowned for his cunning and leadership and limitless resources. Or compare him to Daenerys, your heroine, getting plowed by a massive brute with whom she had exactly one word in common, every single night, until her pregnancy was diagnosed on her fourteenth birthday! A little self-control on Tyrion's part should not be asking THAT much! But, no. He had to have his way, and got an innocent girl gang-raped.

With Shae, she accepted it all and wanted more. He denied her what he couldn't give her and what he had to to keep her safe,
He should not have been keeping her! He knew it, Varys warned him and he kept it up. All other issues aside, as the one footing the bill, you'd think Tywin should have the right to tell Tyrion he can't bring Shae to court.

and she testified against him and then wound up in his father's bed, the rival of a lifetime, literally. Now Tyrion, twice deeply wounded and emotionally baggaged, is finally treating whores the way everyone else in Westeros always did. And he is seeking for his star-crossed lady love, just like all the other foolish men did, just like Robert Baratheon, Petyr Baelish, and Prince Rhaegar.
What a lovely company of selfish, scumbag assholes to find himself in! Robert and Rhaeger made the realm bleed for their selfish choices, and Rhaeger's wife was raped and murdered and his daughter brutally stabbed repeatedly. Some innocent baby died in place of his son, all because that MARRIED man developed an infatuation with someone else's fiancee. People like to assume he's exonerated by Lyanna's consent (as if she had any more right to give it than Tyrion had to marry Tysha or Robb to wed Jeyne), without ever considering the fact that he is cheating on a good woman whom no one has an unkind word to say. He lets his father stir the realm to civil war by slaughtering his vassals on Rhaegar's behalf, while Rhaeger is off having a fling with his mistress in their "Tower of Joy" and his wife sits at home with his insane father and baby children! How anyone can regret the death of this piece of crap is beyond me. The evils of Robert Baratheon and Petyr Baelish are well documented in the current on-going storylines and need no repetition here.

The fact that he doesn't know where whores go is NOT an indication that he is out of touch with the whores themselves. There is obviously no answer to the "Where do whores go" riddle, the point Tywin made was; "I care little and less about this girl, and you will never find her anyway." Tyrion asks the question frequently in self-aware irony, because there is no answer, and if there were it wouldn't find him Tysha anywhere. In this age, finding one person is nearly impossible, as about 50% of our surviving cast can attest to.
I never said that was the purpose of the phrase, but that is another level to it. He HAS been using women and casting them aside, however nicely he imagines he cushions the fall. Sure, it's a nice break when you're servicing the Imp for a day or a fortnight or however long he is lingering in your locale, and he gives you nice jewelery and you eat like a lady, and he talks sweetly to you, and then he goes. Back to court or the Rock or on a journey to Winterfell with his royal brother-in-law or a whimsical trip to see the Wall, and what does his recent paramour do then? Once the coin he gave her and that obtained from selling his nice presents runs out, it's back to banging smelly farmers or thugs with no manners or consideration in filthy surroundings, and being used as an object again, and for the rest of her life (which is likely to be prematurely shortened by disease or abuse or privation). Meanwhile, he's moved on to the next pretty face (and other parts) for hire. Where DO the whore go after he is done with them? Has he ever given them a second thought? But now he cares because the motivations of the virgin he deflowered and exposed to gang rape are revealed as different than he had been told originally! I'll save my sympathies, thank you.

Westerosi whores are not bedslaves any more than a Westerosi tourney knight is a Meereneese Pit Fighter. Haven't you learned from George? We are all slaves. Only some are paid in food, shelter, and clothes, while others are paid in coin that they use to buy food, shelter, and clothes. A slave may be bred to another slave of their master's choosing, but in Westeros a daughter will be bred to a son, and the Father's will make the choosing. A slaver may sell one of his slaves children, or a man may sell his child into slavery. In Westeros a Lord may take a man's child as a ward or hostage, or a man can make his boy an apprentice, or a maester, or a squire. The Black Brothers are even closer to being slaves, as almost none of them are there by choice, they are there for life, and they make their wages in food tithes. Even the Kings and Queens must sell themselves in marriage for the good of their peoples and the benefit of the realm.

I hope Tyrion finds Tysha because it's so far fetched and dreamy it just might happen. His is one of the few happinesses that will not doom a realm
Thhpppt. Lyanna probably thought the same thing.
Cannoli
“Tolerance is the virtue of the man without convictions.” GK Chesteron
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