I couldn't "make" my 9-year-old read anything he didn't want to
Two Wongs Send a noteboard - 27/05/2011 03:15:46 PM
And I wouldn't want to force a book on him - I can remember only too well being back at school and being force-fed books to read, and I'd hate them on pure principle!
He is nothing like the voracious bookworm I was at his age, but he doesn't have time nor the inclination. That hasn't translated into an immature ability but he would likely tell you some choice words if you tried to get him to read most of those books on that list.
Do I care? Not really. He will likely read some of the listed stories in his own time and if not then the world won't end. I'm happy seeing my sports-mad ball of energy sitting for hours fascinated with a pile of Nat Geo magazines, or explaining Zac Power's latest gadgets to me.
Books should be treasures we discover along the way, not geegaws forced upon us by someone else. I've not read past the fourth chapter in the first book of LoTR for this very reason. I have the feeling I'm missing out on a really ripping yarn but I can't make myself do it; I imagine it's for a similar reason as for kids who were forced to eat porridge, growing up and never eating it again.
He is nothing like the voracious bookworm I was at his age, but he doesn't have time nor the inclination. That hasn't translated into an immature ability but he would likely tell you some choice words if you tried to get him to read most of those books on that list.
Do I care? Not really. He will likely read some of the listed stories in his own time and if not then the world won't end. I'm happy seeing my sports-mad ball of energy sitting for hours fascinated with a pile of Nat Geo magazines, or explaining Zac Power's latest gadgets to me.
Books should be treasures we discover along the way, not geegaws forced upon us by someone else. I've not read past the fourth chapter in the first book of LoTR for this very reason. I have the feeling I'm missing out on a really ripping yarn but I can't make myself do it; I imagine it's for a similar reason as for kids who were forced to eat porridge, growing up and never eating it again.
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Two Wongs
Former Officer, ASI
Now mature and sensible... *MySmiley*
Two Wongs
Former Officer, ASI
Now mature and sensible... *MySmiley*
50 books for 11-yearolds
24/05/2011 11:11:20 AM
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Reasonably good list.
24/05/2011 01:32:40 PM
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Pretty good, but I'd like to see a bit more hard sci-fi in there.
24/05/2011 01:48:57 PM
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Re: 50 books for 11-yearolds
24/05/2011 01:57:09 PM
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24/05/2011 02:53:28 PM
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24/05/2011 03:40:51 PM
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24/05/2011 04:30:56 PM
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25/05/2011 02:12:48 PM
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Some of our Franco-Belgian BDs certainly can stand next to these books. If not too many.
24/05/2011 10:49:04 PM
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You don't know of any French-language books for that age? What about Le Petit Prince?
24/05/2011 11:59:37 PM
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Re: You don't know of any French-language books for that age? What about Le Petit Prince?
25/05/2011 01:59:59 PM
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I did forget that one, but I tend to think of it more as an ageless book than a children's book.
25/05/2011 07:48:09 PM
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Re: Some of our Franco-Belgian BDs certainly can stand next to these books. If not too many.
25/05/2011 03:04:27 PM
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Re: Some of our Franco-Belgian BDs certainly can stand next to these books. If not too many.
25/05/2011 08:05:58 PM
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I think most "reading" children will have read those books before age 11.
24/05/2011 02:22:49 PM
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As far as unforgiveable omissions go, Lindgren comes to mind, as does Ende.
24/05/2011 10:36:49 PM
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I couldn't "make" my 9-year-old read anything he didn't want to
27/05/2011 03:15:46 PM
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