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Re: The only mitigating factor was that she had already dumped Rand at that time Cannoli Send a noteboard - 06/02/2010 11:51:48 PM
"I love you, even though I've been obsessed with your half-brother for the last year" was terrible, but at least she wasn't pretending to love someone else when she decided to switch.

You forgot part. It SHOULD read "I love you, even though I've been obsessed with your half-brother for the last year, and HAVE NEVER SPOKEN A WORD DIRECTLY TO YOU, or even registered any awareness of your presence* and please don't read anything into the fact that I am conveniently asking you to forgo vengeance for your mother against my ex and also take the enormous risk of betraying your Aes Sedai employers. I DO love you! Honest! It is not at all as if I am using you."

Actually, the sad thing is, she does. Usefulness to her ambitions IS what Egwene prizes most of all. Gawyn's utility is what swayed her. She persuaded herself to fall in love with Rand, because of his unique family situation - if she had married him, she would have been the matriarch of the al'Thor family, and in the eyes of the Women's Circle, the supreme authority over their household. Egwene LOATHES being under anyone else's authority, and chafes, rebels and disobeys at every opportunity, no matter how willingly she accepts their authority. If she married the typical man her age, she would have moved into a house with a large extended family, and continued her lifelong experience of being the low woman on the totem pole, only instead of the coddled youngest daughter, she would be the new interloper to her mother-, sisters-, aunts-, grandmothers- & cousins-in-law. By marrying Rand she would become Captain her first day on board the ship, rather than starting out as Ensign Redshirt. She later admits to herself that she only thought she loved him, so plainly she did not at the time. She fell in love with him for the escape and power marrying him offered her. Just as she fell in love with Gawyn when she realized she had this pre-whipped idiot who would do anything for her.


* Actually, events prove that a scenario like this is pretty much the ultimate aphrodesiac for a Trakand.
Cannoli
“Tolerance is the virtue of the man without convictions.” GK Chesteron
Inde muagdhe Aes Sedai misain ye!
Deus Vult!
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I was wrong about Egwene. - 06/02/2010 09:46:43 AM 1975 Views
BTW, I am the god of Irony. Bow to me. *NM* - 06/02/2010 09:47:20 AM 418 Views
I think that if there's a real message to take out of this - 06/02/2010 02:55:47 PM 838 Views
yes she's politically shrewd if completely amoral - 06/02/2010 05:03:19 PM 746 Views
Re: yes she's politically shrewd if completely amoral - 06/02/2010 06:08:40 PM 778 Views
In her defense, she has no way of getting in contact with him - 06/02/2010 11:28:37 PM 824 Views
Re: In her defense, she has no way of getting in contact with him - 06/02/2010 11:47:04 PM 621 Views
Re: In her defense, she has no way of getting in contact with him - 07/02/2010 02:43:13 AM 681 Views
Re: In her defense, she has no way of getting in contact with him - 07/02/2010 11:13:39 PM 801 Views
I might agree with her on your projected Verin scenario - 06/02/2010 11:35:47 PM 936 Views
It really is her most defining quality - 06/02/2010 06:27:17 PM 638 Views
That was nothing. - 06/02/2010 08:48:39 PM 618 Views
The only mitigating factor was that she had already dumped Rand at that time - 06/02/2010 11:34:45 PM 750 Views
Re: The only mitigating factor was that she had already dumped Rand at that time - 06/02/2010 11:51:48 PM 645 Views
Hah! - 07/02/2010 02:22:30 PM 610 Views
There was a nice beginning - "Cannoli: I was wrong about Egwene"... - 06/02/2010 06:42:18 PM 678 Views
I think the title summarizes years of debate *NM* - 07/02/2010 09:26:35 AM 512 Views
I like Egwene. - 08/02/2010 10:22:14 AM 647 Views
And the greater good always conveniently requires her being in charge or getting more power *NM* - 12/02/2010 12:19:05 AM 299 Views
Yes, just like for Rand. *NM* - 12/02/2010 12:24:57 AM 259 Views
And the rest of the Randland Justice League. *NM* - 12/02/2010 05:25:38 PM 263 Views
Re: Rand goes out of his way to discarge authority to others; Egwene, well hopefully in the future *NM* - 13/02/2010 04:20:31 AM 304 Views
Ummm... what? When? *NM* - 13/02/2010 04:53:50 AM 252 Views
Like his Stewards & supporting loyal rulers. *NM* - 15/02/2010 02:30:32 PM 291 Views
Darlin, Caroline, Elayne, Ituralde, Bashere, Logain, Rhuarc, etc. - 15/02/2010 05:57:05 PM 752 Views
Oh you mean all those guys he treats like his personal b*tches? *NM* - 15/02/2010 06:10:17 PM 377 Views
Re: Oh you mean all those guys he treats like his personal b*tches? - 16/02/2010 08:10:02 PM 652 Views
Agreed, that's what I've been saying. - 16/02/2010 08:23:14 PM 645 Views
Well, Egwene has lackeys too! - 15/02/2010 08:12:17 PM 561 Views
Re: Well, Egwene has lackeys too! - 15/02/2010 10:37:50 PM 539 Views
Yup, hopefully she'll be killed, then stilled. - 13/02/2010 11:03:51 PM 538 Views

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